View a FREE sample

This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.

Short Answer Questions

1. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?

2. Children who did not express themselves growing up were often treated in which way by their parents?

3. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?

4. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?

5. The author uses the term 'flip-flop' to describe which factor?

Short Essay Questions

1. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?

2. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?

3. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?

4. How can history repeat itself through children of unfaithful parents growing up to be unfaithful adults?

5. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?

6. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?

7. What are the assumptions couples make about orgasms?

8. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?

9. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?

10. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?

Essay Topics

Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:

Essay Topic 1

Even after a couple has recommitted to their marriage, the unfaithful partner could decide to embark on another extramarital affair.

What are three reasons this may occur?

What are three warning signs the could indicate this possibility?

Essay Topic 2

Choose a case study from the book involving a couple post-affair and a religious leader. Analyze this case study from the point of view of the religious leader.

Explain how the religious leader would advise the couple to work towards rebuilding their relationship based on the advice from the book. Make sure to include three steps the religious leader should advise the couple to take.

Essay Topic 3

The intended audience of this book is couples who have chosen to work towards rebuilding their relationship. Describe three ways in which the book would change if the intended audience was unfaithful partners who chose to work on a relationship with their lover instead of the hurt partner.

(see the answer keys)

This section contains 794 words (approx. 3 pages at 300 words per page) View a FREE sample