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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. Partners may feel that it is unacceptable to take which action?
2. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?
3. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
4. Chapter 9 concludes with a document that is meant to help a couple in which way?
5. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
2. What experience can influence an individual's ability to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
3. What are some assumptions an unfaithful partner could make about sexual intimacy?
4. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?
5. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?
6. What is a schema?
7. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
8. In the process of rebuilding trust, what is a couple most likely to come to a stalemate over?
9. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?
10. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
Essay Topics
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
Consider the low-cost behaviors suggested by the author which can change behavior post-affair.
Compare and contrast the effectiveness of changing these behaviors to the high-cost behaviors suggested.
How could these changes positively affect a relationship after the discovery of an affair?
Essay Topic 2
The author provides physical documents that couples are advised to fill out and sign to establish a public record of their commitment to the marriage. Choose one of these documents and explain its overall purpose and its relevancy in rebuilding the relationship.
Essay Topic 3
Compare and contrast five responses on the part of the hurt partner vs. the unfaithful partner after the disclosure of an affair.
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