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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?
(a) Cherished.
(b) Loved.
(c) Secure.
(d) Wanted.

2. Chapter 9 concludes with a document that is meant to help a couple in which way?
(a) A physical agreement to disclose all details about the lover.
(b) A physical agreement to forgive and forget the affair.
(c) A physical agreement to record details of each conversation.
(d) A physical agreement to move forward in rebuilding the relationship.

3. What could define the way a person listens?
(a) Prior assumptions.
(b) Childhood experiences.
(c) Emotional state.
(d) Role in the affair.

4. What is the process of assaulting a partner with verbal abuse?
(a) Storm.
(b) Anger.
(c) Fear.
(d) Rage.

5. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?
(a) Those integral to achieving full forgiveness.
(b) Those experienced by the hurt partner.
(c) Those unique to each partner.
(d) Those needed to heal a marriage.

6. When trust has been destroyed, which emotion is logically prevalent?
(a) Doubt.
(b) Anger.
(c) Fear.
(d) Guilt.

7. How should children connect with others?
(a) Mentally.
(b) Emotionally.
(c) Physically.
(d) Cognitively.

8. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
(a) Openly and honestly.
(b) Passionately and fully.
(c) Freely and unconditionally.
(d) Tentatively and earnestly.

9. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) The hurt partner.
(b) The unfaithful partner.
(c) Both partners.
(d) The lover.

10. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
(a) Fear.
(b) Rage.
(c) Jeaousy.
(d) Blame.

11. How does the text refer to childhood experiences?
(a) Key stages of life.
(b) Critical growth experiences.
(c) Important relationship history.
(d) Formative development years.

12. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
(a) A comparison to the happiness of their parents.
(b) A better understanding of relationship problems.
(c) A deep-rooted fear of losing a child.
(d) A partner having an affair.

13. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
(a) Silence.
(b) Ignorance.
(c) Avoidance.
(d) Acceptance.

14. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?
(a) Ignored.
(b) Needed.
(c) Foolish.
(d) Strong.

15. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
(a) Their needs.
(b) Their frustration.
(c) Their demands.
(d) Their hurt.

Short Answer Questions

1. A graph is provided for couples to chart behaviors that can be preformed in which timeframe?

2. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?

3. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?

4. Exploring and learning about the affair is achieved through which process?

5. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?

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