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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
(a) Unavoidable.
(b) Uncomfortable.
(c) Integral.
(d) Necessary.

2. What is the process of assaulting a partner with verbal abuse?
(a) Rage.
(b) Storm.
(c) Anger.
(d) Fear.

3. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?
(a) With the same intensity.
(b) With the same fantasies.
(c) With the same frequency.
(d) With the same duration.

4. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?
(a) Wanted.
(b) Secure.
(c) Cherished.
(d) Loved.

5. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?
(a) It can deepen the pain of the affair.
(b) It can affect their personal identity.
(c) It can damage their self-esteem.
(d) It can trigger childhood memories.

6. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
(a) Be justified the unfaithful partner.
(b) Be forgotten with the affair.
(c) Be replaced by positive feelings.
(d) Be accepted by both partners.

7. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?
(a) Before the marriage is reconciled.
(b) After the children know.
(c) Before the hurt partner changes.
(d) After the affair ends.

8. Women desire what type of support in communication?
(a) Physical.
(b) Emotional.
(c) Mental.
(d) Relational.

9. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?
(a) It will cause deeper wounds in the relationship.
(b) It will send the unfaithful partner back to the lover.
(c) It will bring additional pain into the marriage.
(d) It will not be taken seriously by the hurt partner.

10. Why do some individuals refuse to change?
(a) They are angry.
(b) They are sad.
(c) They are depressed.
(d) They are lonely.

11. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) Overcoming resistance to change.
(b) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(c) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(d) Methods to change behavior.

12. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
(a) Deception.
(b) Adultery.
(c) Betrayal.
(d) Cheat.

13. What could define the way a person listens?
(a) Prior assumptions.
(b) Childhood experiences.
(c) Role in the affair.
(d) Emotional state.

14. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
(a) Fear.
(b) Jeaousy.
(c) Blame.
(d) Rage.

15. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It could increase.
(b) It should dissipate.
(c) It will not be eliminated.
(d) It may be avoided.

Short Answer Questions

1. Future affairs will not be likely to occur if which action is taken?

2. Who do children need to value in their lives?

3. When trust has been destroyed, which emotion is logically prevalent?

4. Children need to function in which way?

5. Why do unfaithful partners feel pressure to perform sex at a high satisfactory level with their partner?

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