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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?
(a) It could be regained in a relationship.
(b) It will decrease during the marriage.
(c) It should come easily and naturally.
(d) It would be more exciting with a lover.

2. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?
(a) It will cause deeper wounds in the relationship.
(b) It will bring additional pain into the marriage.
(c) It will not be taken seriously by the hurt partner.
(d) It will send the unfaithful partner back to the lover.

3. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?
(a) Crossover.
(b) Equality.
(c) Intimacy.
(d) Mirror.

4. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
(a) Gender.
(b) Career.
(c) Religion.
(d) Age.

5. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
(a) They should be embraced.
(b) They should be analyzed.
(c) They should be eliminated.
(d) They should be ignored.

6. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
(a) As an outcome.
(b) As a process.
(c) As a reality.
(d) As a need.

7. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) A change in sexual desires.
(b) Their marriage is over.
(c) The affair is continuing.
(d) A lack of sexual ability.

8. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
(a) Critical life events.
(b) Childhood experiences.
(c) Fear of losing a partner.
(d) Unfair circumstances.

9. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?
(a) It can damage their self-esteem.
(b) It can affect their personal identity.
(c) It can deepen the pain of the affair.
(d) It can trigger childhood memories.

10. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
(a) Cheat.
(b) Betrayal.
(c) Adultery.
(d) Deception.

11. Intimate listening can be described as which skill?
(a) Accepting what your partner is explaining.
(b) Agreeing with what your partner is saying.
(c) Understanding what your partner is experiencing.
(d) Hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.

12. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(b) Overcoming resistance to change.
(c) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(d) Methods to change behavior.

13. Destructive behaviors can be forgiven without which of the following?
(a) Understanding.
(b) Acknowledgment.
(c) Recommitment.
(d) Acceptance.

14. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
(a) Schema.
(b) Illusion.
(c) Void.
(d) Deficiency.

15. A graph is provided for couples to chart behaviors that can be preformed in which timeframe?
(a) Immediately.
(b) Exponentially.
(c) Eventually.
(d) Step-by-step.

Short Answer Questions

1. Who do children need to value in their lives?

2. Chapter 9 concludes with a document that is meant to help a couple in which way?

3. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?

4. Post-affair testing for AIDS is described in which way?

5. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?

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