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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?
(a) Jealousy and anger.
(b) An extramarital affair.
(c) Temporary separation.
(d) Bitterness and resentment.

2. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?
(a) Their identity is invested in their intimate relationship.
(b) Their identity and self-worth are tied to their sexuality.
(c) Their identity is regulated solely by their own beliefs.
(d) Their identity is defined by their partner and children.

3. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
(a) Deep.
(b) Mature.
(c) Passionate.
(d) Fulfilling.

4. Children who did not express themselves growing up were often treated in which way by their parents?
(a) Told to go to their room.
(b) Told to be quiet.
(c) Told to behave.
(d) Told to sit down.

5. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Understanding childhood experiences.
(b) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(c) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(d) Healing after an affair.

Short Answer Questions

1. The genuine intention of an individual may be lost if the partner feels the behavior is only occurring for which reason?

2. For whom must forgiveness occur?

3. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?

4. Which idea is unlikely about the couple working through an extramarital affair?

5. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?

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