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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. A listener should not engage in which action?
(a) Ignoring.
(b) Asking for clarification.
(c) Remaining silent.
(d) Arguing.

2. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?
(a) Three.
(b) One.
(c) Two.
(d) Four.

3. Who do children need to value in their lives?
(a) Themselves.
(b) Their friends.
(c) Their siblings.
(d) Their parents.

4. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?
(a) Despair.
(b) Anxiousness.
(c) Grief.
(d) Loneliness.

5. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?
(a) After the children know.
(b) Before the marriage is reconciled.
(c) Before the hurt partner changes.
(d) After the affair ends.

Short Answer Questions

1. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?

2. The feeling of romantic love can lead the unfaithful partner to take which action?

3. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?

4. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?

5. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?

(see the answer key)

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