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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
(a) They are angry at the lover.
(b) They lose their sense of self-respect.
(c) They lose their will to try in the relationship.
(d) They are devastated by the affair.

2. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
(a) Lover.
(b) Unfaithful.
(c) Victim.
(d) Betrayed.

3. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?
(a) Loss of control over mind and body.
(b) Loss of religious faith.
(c) Loss of personal identity.
(d) Loss of connection with others.

4. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) The hurt partner.
(b) The lover.
(c) Both partners.
(d) The unfaithful partner.

5. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?
(a) Ten.
(b) Twelve.
(c) Eight.
(d) Six.

Short Answer Questions

1. After an affair, the marital relationship faces which two options?

2. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?

3. Both partners should listen in which way?

4. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?

5. A list is provided in Chapter 8 to help people understand the common areas of shame associated with which of the following?

(see the answer key)

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