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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Future affairs will not be likely to occur if which action is taken?
(a) The unfaithful partner changes careers.
(b) The reasons for the affair are discussed with the lover.
(c) The underlying causes are examined and corrected.
(d) The hurt partner works to regain self-esteem.

2. One partner may assume that the relationship is in which state?
(a) Stale and unable to move forward.
(b) Damaged beyond repair.
(c) Deeply flawed and dysfunctional.
(d) Unrecognizable from its origins.

3. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
(a) Acceptance.
(b) Avoidance.
(c) Silence.
(d) Ignorance.

4. How does the text refer to childhood experiences?
(a) Formative development years.
(b) Critical growth experiences.
(c) Important relationship history.
(d) Key stages of life.

5. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
(a) Blame.
(b) Fear.
(c) Jeaousy.
(d) Rage.

Short Answer Questions

1. When friends and family withdraw from the unfaithful partner, who can provide a temporary substitute?

2. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?

3. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?

4. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?

5. A list is provided in Chapter 8 to help people understand the common areas of shame associated with which of the following?

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