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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
(a) They lose their will to try in the relationship.
(b) They are angry at the lover.
(c) They are devastated by the affair.
(d) They lose their sense of self-respect.

2. How does the book view sex tools?
(a) Dangerous if used only with the lover.
(b) Healthy if acceptable to both partners.
(c) Integral to maintaining the excitement in intimacy.
(d) Unnecessary if the marriage is working.

3. How is masturbation viewed by the text?
(a) An individual preference.
(b) A sign of dissatisfaction.
(c) Indicative of marital stress.
(d) A normal behavior.

4. How should children connect with others?
(a) Mentally.
(b) Cognitively.
(c) Physically.
(d) Emotionally.

5. Why do unfaithful partners feel pressure to perform sex at a high satisfactory level with their partner?
(a) To compensate for the loss of the lover.
(b) To prove the marriage is worth salvaging.
(c) To regain sexual intimacy with the hurt partner.
(d) To avoid the hurt partner fearing the affair is continuing.

Short Answer Questions

1. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?

2. Most relationships begin with which emotion?

3. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?

4. The euphoria felt from the affair can be attributed to which reality?

5. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?

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