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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. When some hurt partners discover the affair, they feel an emotional toll equal or greater to which event?
(a) Getting into a car accident.
(b) Being raped.
(c) Losing a child.
(d) Being fired from a job.

2. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
(a) With desire to keep their family together at all costs.
(b) With acceptance and forgiveness for the affair.
(c) With willingness to work at the relationship.
(d) With acknowledgement of the level of damage from the affair.

3. Forgiveness involves mental development and occurs in which timeframe?
(a) Immediately.
(b) Quickly.
(c) As time goes on.
(d) When the affair ends.

4. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
(a) Betrayal.
(b) Adultery.
(c) Cheat.
(d) Deception.

5. How does the book view sex tools?
(a) Dangerous if used only with the lover.
(b) Unnecessary if the marriage is working.
(c) Healthy if acceptable to both partners.
(d) Integral to maintaining the excitement in intimacy.

Short Answer Questions

1. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?

2. What is the first step in post-affair healing?

3. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?

4. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?

5. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?

(see the answer key)

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