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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Developing realistic expectations of sex involves examining assumptions regarding which emotion?
(a) Desire.
(b) Love.
(c) Lust.
(d) Passion.

2. How many essential childhood experiences are identified by the text?
(a) Five.
(b) Eleven.
(c) Seven.
(d) Nine.

3. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?
(a) Jealousy and anger.
(b) Temporary separation.
(c) Bitterness and resentment.
(d) An extramarital affair.

4. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?
(a) Keeping secrets.
(b) Sexual intercourse.
(c) Feelings of betrayal.
(d) Breach of trust.

5. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
(a) They are devastated by the affair.
(b) They lose their will to try in the relationship.
(c) They lose their sense of self-respect.
(d) They are angry at the lover.

Short Answer Questions

1. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?

2. Why does an affair need to be understood?

3. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?

4. Basic goals and new boundaries should be decided on by whom?

5. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?

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