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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 6 - Restoring Trust.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Childhood.
(b) Gender-based.
(c) Previous relationships.
(d) Unfulfilled dreams.

2. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
(a) With willingness to work at the relationship.
(b) With acknowledgement of the level of damage from the affair.
(c) With desire to keep their family together at all costs.
(d) With acceptance and forgiveness for the affair.

3. On what are relationships based?
(a) Trust and love.
(b) Respect and friendship.
(c) Family and commitment.
(d) Common goals and desires.

4. Although many hurt partners feel that 'good things happen to good people,' how does the discovery of the affair affect this sentiment?
(a) They believe they did something wrong to bring on the affair.
(b) They become aware their partner is not a good person.
(c) They must abandon their common, fundamental beliefs.
(d) They hold tightly to the idea that good things will come their way.

5. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
(a) Deep friendship.
(b) Romantic love.
(c) Passionate lust.
(d) Uncontrollable desire.

Short Answer Questions

1. If the unfaithful partner feels committed to the lover, how could this affect their feelings about the affair?

2. For trust to be regained in a relationship, what must happen?

3. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?

4. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?

5. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?

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