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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 6 - Restoring Trust.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Connecting with friends and family in the wake of an affair is perceived how by the hurt partner?
(a) Instant and deep.
(b) Tenuous and slow.
(c) Easy and necessary.
(d) Difficult and painful.

2. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
(a) Their demands.
(b) Their frustration.
(c) Their needs.
(d) Their hurt.

3. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?
(a) Both male and female hurt partners.
(b) Neither of the hurt partners.
(c) Female hurt partners.
(d) Male hurt partners.

4. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
(a) Recommitting fully to the relationship.
(b) Addressing the root causes of the affair.
(c) Changing personal behavior to display trustworthiness.
(d) Cutting off all communication to the lover.

5. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?
(a) Bitterness and resentment.
(b) Temporary separation.
(c) An extramarital affair.
(d) Jealousy and anger.

Short Answer Questions

1. A hurt partner may avoid demanding change if they feel it will lead to which situation?

2. Both partners should listen in which way?

3. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?

4. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?

5. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?

(see the answer key)

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