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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 6 - Restoring Trust.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. One partner may assume that the relationship is in which state?
(a) Unrecognizable from its origins.
(b) Deeply flawed and dysfunctional.
(c) Damaged beyond repair.
(d) Stale and unable to move forward.

2. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?
(a) The behaviors are attempts to get the attention of the unfaithful partner.
(b) The behaviors are attempts to get even with the lover.
(c) The behaviors are attempts to remember life before the relationship.
(d) The behaviors are attempts to dull pain and reduce anxiety.

3. After making a difficult decision between the hurt partner and the lover, the unfaithful partner may begin to doubt what about themselves?
(a) Their decision.
(b) Their feelings.
(c) Their sexual confidence.
(d) Their personal identity.

4. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
(a) Productivity.
(b) Cost.
(c) Effectiveness.
(d) Ease.

5. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Childhood.
(b) Unfulfilled dreams.
(c) Gender-based.
(d) Previous relationships.

Short Answer Questions

1. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?

2. The unfaithful partner may experience physical changes from romantic love that can be expected to last how long?

3. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?

4. Which is an example of a behavior that may take a considerable toll on a partner?

5. Women typically view an affair in which way compared with men?

(see the answer key)

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