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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Epilogue - Revealing the Secret: Truth and Consequences.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
(a) Their needs.
(b) Their frustration.
(c) Their hurt.
(d) Their demands.

2. Adults who lack self-discipline often did not have which childhood experience?
(a) Love from their parents shown.
(b) Realistic boundaries enforced.
(c) Freedom to explore new ideas granted.
(d) Consequences for their actions explained.

3. Intimate listening can be described as which skill?
(a) Accepting what your partner is explaining.
(b) Understanding what your partner is experiencing.
(c) Hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.
(d) Agreeing with what your partner is saying.

4. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) Both partners.
(b) The unfaithful partner.
(c) The lover.
(d) The hurt partner.

5. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
(a) Addressing the root causes of the affair.
(b) Recommitting fully to the relationship.
(c) Changing personal behavior to display trustworthiness.
(d) Cutting off all communication to the lover.

Short Answer Questions

1. What is the first step in post-affair healing?

2. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?

3. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?

4. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?

5. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?

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