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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 1 - The Hurt Partner's Response: Buried in an Avalanche of Losses.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Although many hurt partners feel that 'good things happen to good people,' how does the discovery of the affair affect this sentiment?
(a) They hold tightly to the idea that good things will come their way.
(b) They must abandon their common, fundamental beliefs.
(c) They become aware their partner is not a good person.
(d) They believe they did something wrong to bring on the affair.

2. Men distract themselves with external events when dealing with an unfaithful partner while women react in which way?
(a) Disengage from the marriage.
(b) Confront the lover.
(c) Obsess over the relationship.
(d) Plan a retreat to discuss the affair.

3. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Understanding childhood experiences.
(b) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(c) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(d) Healing after an affair.

4. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
(a) Victim.
(b) Unfaithful.
(c) Betrayed.
(d) Lover.

5. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?
(a) Keeping secrets.
(b) Breach of trust.
(c) Feelings of betrayal.
(d) Sexual intercourse.

Short Answer Questions

1. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?

2. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

3. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?

4. What is the first step in post-affair healing?

5. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?

(see the answer key)

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