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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 1 - The Hurt Partner's Response: Buried in an Avalanche of Losses.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Why does an affair need to be understood?
(a) It could be the end of the relationship.
(b) It may affect the children too deeply.
(c) The lover may not leave the relationship.
(d) The hurt partner may never forget.

2. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
(a) Managing emotions until feelings can normalize.
(b) Discussing the secret nature of the affair.
(c) Making an appointment to see a marriage counselor.
(d) Discovering the identity of the lover.

3. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
(a) Victim.
(b) Betrayed.
(c) Unfaithful.
(d) Lover.

4. When some hurt partners discover the affair, they feel an emotional toll equal or greater to which event?
(a) Losing a child.
(b) Getting into a car accident.
(c) Being fired from a job.
(d) Being raped.

5. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?
(a) Neither of the hurt partners.
(b) Male hurt partners.
(c) Female hurt partners.
(d) Both male and female hurt partners.

Short Answer Questions

1. The overall length of the introduction can be described with which term?

2. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?

3. The introduction addresses which of these questions?

4. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

5. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?

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