View a FREE sample

This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. After making a difficult decision between the hurt partner and the lover, the unfaithful partner may begin to doubt what about themselves?
(a) Their decision.
(b) Their feelings.
(c) Their personal identity.
(d) Their sexual confidence.

2. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To make a public relationship with the lover.
(b) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
(c) To remain committed to the marriage.
(d) To avoid affairs in the future.

3. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?
(a) Moving the unfaithful partner out of the house.
(b) Working to recommit on an intimate level.
(c) Telling the children about the affair.
(d) Deciding whether to separate or stay together.

4. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?
(a) They enjoy the thrill of lying.
(b) They grow tired of lying.
(c) They teach their children how to lie.
(d) They invent new ways to lie.

5. A person contemplating an extramarital affair will most likely view this book in which way?
(a) Insulting and wrong.
(b) Judgmental and tedious.
(c) Helpful and enlightening.
(d) Long and not applicable.

Short Answer Questions

1. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?

2. What is the first step in post-affair healing?

3. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?

4. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?

5. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?

(see the answer key)

This section contains 340 words (approx. 2 pages at 300 words per page) View a FREE sample