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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
(a) They lose their will to try in the relationship.
(b) They are angry at the lover.
(c) They lose their sense of self-respect.
(d) They are devastated by the affair.

2. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Unfulfilled dreams.
(b) Childhood.
(c) Previous relationships.
(d) Gender-based.

3. Women typically view an affair in which way compared with men?
(a) Healthy and necessary.
(b) Complicating and difficult.
(c) Sad and lonely.
(d) Fun and distracting.

4. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
(a) To eliminate stereotypes about infidelity.
(b) To create a new language for the partners.
(c) To avoid emotionally charged labels.
(d) To help the couple speak openly about their problems.

5. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
(b) To remain committed to the marriage.
(c) To make a public relationship with the lover.
(d) To avoid affairs in the future.

Short Answer Questions

1. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?

2. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?

3. The introduction addresses which of these questions?

4. What is the first step in post-affair healing?

5. What is one of the main purposes of the introduction?

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