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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. When some hurt partners discover the affair, they feel an emotional toll equal or greater to which event?
(a) Losing a child.
(b) Getting into a car accident.
(c) Being fired from a job.
(d) Being raped.

2. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
(a) Sad.
(b) Hopelessness.
(c) Guilt.
(d) Rejected.

3. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They cannot accurately express their emotions.
(b) They lose the sense of being special.
(c) They regret the time lost with their partner.
(d) They compare themselves to the lover.

4. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Unfulfilled dreams.
(b) Childhood.
(c) Gender-based.
(d) Previous relationships.

5. The unfaithful partner may experience physical changes from romantic love that can be expected to last how long?
(a) Throughout the affair.
(b) A short time.
(c) The rest of their life.
(d) When they're with their lover.

Short Answer Questions

1. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?

2. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?

3. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?

4. What is the main purpose of the book?

5. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?

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