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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Although many hurt partners feel that 'good things happen to good people,' how does the discovery of the affair affect this sentiment?
(a) They must abandon their common, fundamental beliefs.
(b) They believe they did something wrong to bring on the affair.
(c) They become aware their partner is not a good person.
(d) They hold tightly to the idea that good things will come their way.

2. The author of the book can be described in which way?
(a) A man with a religious background.
(b) A woman with an advanced degree.
(c) A woman with no formal training.
(d) A man with a medical degree.

3. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?
(a) Loss of personal identity.
(b) Loss of religious faith.
(c) Loss of connection with others.
(d) Loss of control over mind and body.

4. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
(a) Seven.
(b) Eleven.
(c) Five.
(d) Nine.

5. If the expectations of love and marriage are not modified, they can lead to which type of relationship?
(a) Dysfunctional.
(b) Abusive.
(c) Unfaithful.
(d) Loveless.

Short Answer Questions

1. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?

2. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?

3. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?

4. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?

5. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?

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