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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(b) Healing after an affair.
(c) Understanding childhood experiences.
(d) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.

2. The unfaithful partner often wants to reconnect in their marriage in order to stop feeling which emotion?
(a) Jealousy.
(b) Fear.
(c) Anger.
(d) Guilt.

3. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
(a) Guilt.
(b) Rejected.
(c) Sad.
(d) Hopelessness.

4. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?
(a) Anxiousness.
(b) Loneliness.
(c) Grief.
(d) Despair.

5. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To make a public relationship with the lover.
(b) To remain committed to the marriage.
(c) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
(d) To avoid affairs in the future.

Short Answer Questions

1. Why does an affair need to be understood?

2. How do children typically respond to the unfaithful partner?

3. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

4. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?

5. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?

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