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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Who is the book's primary audience?
(a) An unfaithful partner who is unsure about the status of their marriage.
(b) A hurt partner who wants to get even with the unfaithful partner.
(c) A lover who wants to beging a new relationship outside the affair.
(d) A couple who want to rebuild their relationship after an affair.

2. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
(a) Rebuilding the relationship.
(b) Holding a recommitment ceremony.
(c) Removing the lover from the picture.
(d) Rekindling romantic feelings.

3. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
(b) Disengage from the marriage even further.
(c) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(d) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.

4. If the expectations of love and marriage are not modified, they can lead to which type of relationship?
(a) Unfaithful.
(b) Dysfunctional.
(c) Abusive.
(d) Loveless.

5. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?
(a) The behaviors are attempts to get the attention of the unfaithful partner.
(b) The behaviors are attempts to remember life before the relationship.
(c) The behaviors are attempts to dull pain and reduce anxiety.
(d) The behaviors are attempts to get even with the lover.

Short Answer Questions

1. The unfaithful partner often wants to reconnect in their marriage in order to stop feeling which emotion?

2. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?

3. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?

4. How does chapter number 1 conclude?

5. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?

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