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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 2 - The Unfaithful Partner's Response: Lost in a Labyrinth of Choices.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
(a) Shame.
(b) Anger.
(c) Jealousy.
(d) Self-disgust.

2. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(b) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(c) Understanding childhood experiences.
(d) Healing after an affair.

3. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(b) Disengage from the marriage even further.
(c) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
(d) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.

4. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?
(a) Working to recommit on an intimate level.
(b) Moving the unfaithful partner out of the house.
(c) Telling the children about the affair.
(d) Deciding whether to separate or stay together.

5. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
(a) To eliminate stereotypes about infidelity.
(b) To create a new language for the partners.
(c) To help the couple speak openly about their problems.
(d) To avoid emotionally charged labels.

Short Answer Questions

1. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?

2. How does chapter number 1 conclude?

3. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?

4. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?

5. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

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