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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?
(a) The behaviors are attempts to get the attention of the unfaithful partner.
(b) The behaviors are attempts to get even with the lover.
(c) The behaviors are attempts to dull pain and reduce anxiety.
(d) The behaviors are attempts to remember life before the relationship.

2. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) Without reacting.
(b) With love.
(c) Without judgment.
(d) With concentration.

3. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?
(a) Eleven.
(b) Five.
(c) Nine.
(d) Seven.

4. After making a difficult decision between the hurt partner and the lover, the unfaithful partner may begin to doubt what about themselves?
(a) Their personal identity.
(b) Their sexual confidence.
(c) Their decision.
(d) Their feelings.

5. Men distract themselves with external events when dealing with an unfaithful partner while women react in which way?
(a) Confront the lover.
(b) Plan a retreat to discuss the affair.
(c) Obsess over the relationship.
(d) Disengage from the marriage.

Short Answer Questions

1. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?

2. Why do some partners mistakenly believe that verbal abuse must be accepted?

3. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?

4. A hurt partner may avoid demanding change if they feel it will lead to which situation?

5. Children who did not express themselves growing up were often treated in which way by their parents?

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