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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How does the text refer to childhood experiences?
(a) Important relationship history.
(b) Formative development years.
(c) Key stages of life.
(d) Critical growth experiences.

2. After an affair is discovered, how is the personal identity of hurt partner affected?
(a) It is recreated.
(b) It is lost.
(c) It is improved.
(d) It is stabilized.

3. Who is the book's primary audience?
(a) A lover who wants to beging a new relationship outside the affair.
(b) A couple who want to rebuild their relationship after an affair.
(c) A hurt partner who wants to get even with the unfaithful partner.
(d) An unfaithful partner who is unsure about the status of their marriage.

4. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
(a) Effectiveness.
(b) Cost.
(c) Productivity.
(d) Ease.

5. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
(a) Void.
(b) Illusion.
(c) Deficiency.
(d) Schema.

Short Answer Questions

1. Who do children need to value in their lives?

2. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?

3. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?

4. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?

5. When some hurt partners discover the affair, they feel an emotional toll equal or greater to which event?

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