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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. When the affair is discovered, what is the typical reaction of the unfaithful partner?
(a) Anger and jealousy.
(b) Emotional relief.
(c) Fear and loathing.
(d) Disappointment.

2. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
(a) Unfaithful.
(b) Lover.
(c) Victim.
(d) Betrayed.

3. How do women usually react to the discovery of an affair?
(a) They turn to girlfriends and family for support.
(b) They ignore the explanations of their partner.
(c) They try to forget about the realities of the affair.
(d) They attempt to keep their relationship going.

4. Adults who lack self-discipline often did not have which childhood experience?
(a) Consequences for their actions explained.
(b) Love from their parents shown.
(c) Realistic boundaries enforced.
(d) Freedom to explore new ideas granted.

5. If the unfaithful partner feels committed to the lover, how could this affect their feelings about the affair?
(a) They may feel distracted.
(b) They may not want to reconnect.
(c) They may be angry.
(d) They may not feel guilty.

Short Answer Questions

1. The intense attachment a hurt partner may feel towards the unfaithful partner could override which of the following?

2. If a partner exhibits signs of change, how could the other partner view this change?

3. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?

4. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?

5. The overall length of the introduction can be described with which term?

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