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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. An unfaithful partner may experience which emotion after leaving the lover?
(a) Resentment.
(b) Despair.
(c) Guilt.
(d) Anger.

2. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?
(a) Before the marriage is reconciled.
(b) After the children know.
(c) Before the hurt partner changes.
(d) After the affair ends.

3. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They regret the time lost with their partner.
(b) They lose the sense of being special.
(c) They compare themselves to the lover.
(d) They cannot accurately express their emotions.

4. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
(a) They can be resolved.
(b) They need time to sort out.
(c) They must be addressed.
(d) They should be ignored.

5. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After recommitting to the relationship.
(b) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(c) After deciding to divorce.
(d) After learning about the affair.

Short Answer Questions

1. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?

2. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?

3. A listener should not engage in which action?

4. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?

5. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?

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