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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
(a) Cutting off all communication to the lover.
(b) Changing personal behavior to display trustworthiness.
(c) Recommitting fully to the relationship.
(d) Addressing the root causes of the affair.

2. How do women usually react to the discovery of an affair?
(a) They try to forget about the realities of the affair.
(b) They ignore the explanations of their partner.
(c) They attempt to keep their relationship going.
(d) They turn to girlfriends and family for support.

3. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
(a) Rebuilding the relationship.
(b) Rekindling romantic feelings.
(c) Removing the lover from the picture.
(d) Holding a recommitment ceremony.

4. What is the process of assaulting a partner with verbal abuse?
(a) Anger.
(b) Rage.
(c) Fear.
(d) Storm.

5. Children need to function in which way?
(a) Without boundaries.
(b) With supervision.
(c) Dependently.
(d) Independently.

Short Answer Questions

1. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?

2. After making a difficult decision between the hurt partner and the lover, the unfaithful partner may begin to doubt what about themselves?

3. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?

4. If a hurt partner remains committed to impossibly high standards, they most likely missed out on which childhood experience?

5. Why do some partners mistakenly believe that verbal abuse must be accepted?

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