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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) The lover.
(b) Both partners.
(c) The unfaithful partner.
(d) The hurt partner.

2. Intimate listening can be described as which skill?
(a) Hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.
(b) Agreeing with what your partner is saying.
(c) Understanding what your partner is experiencing.
(d) Accepting what your partner is explaining.

3. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) With concentration.
(b) Without reacting.
(c) With love.
(d) Without judgment.

4. Using mental time projection will help the partners accomplish which task?
(a) Focus on the rebuilding process.
(b) Let go of past infidelities.
(c) Rekindle their sexual intimacy.
(d) Forgive the unfaithful partner.

5. On what are relationships based?
(a) Family and commitment.
(b) Common goals and desires.
(c) Respect and friendship.
(d) Trust and love.

Short Answer Questions

1. The book urges readers to take an inventory of which aspect of their lives?

2. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?

3. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?

4. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?

5. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?

(see the answer key)

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