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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.
(b) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
(c) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(d) Disengage from the marriage even further.

2. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After learning about the affair.
(b) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(c) After recommitting to the relationship.
(d) After deciding to divorce.

3. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?
(a) Loved.
(b) Cherished.
(c) Secure.
(d) Wanted.

4. Connecting with friends and family in the wake of an affair is perceived how by the hurt partner?
(a) Instant and deep.
(b) Easy and necessary.
(c) Tenuous and slow.
(d) Difficult and painful.

5. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
(a) Rage.
(b) Fear.
(c) Jeaousy.
(d) Blame.

Short Answer Questions

1. While hurt female partners typically become depressed, how do male hurt partners typically react?

2. A person contemplating an extramarital affair will most likely view this book in which way?

3. After an affair is discovered, how is the personal identity of hurt partner affected?

4. Basic goals and new boundaries should be decided on by whom?

5. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?

(see the answer key)

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