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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?
(a) Grief.
(b) Loneliness.
(c) Anxiousness.
(d) Despair.

2. When some hurt partners discover the affair, they feel an emotional toll equal or greater to which event?
(a) Being raped.
(b) Being fired from a job.
(c) Losing a child.
(d) Getting into a car accident.

3. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Gender-based.
(b) Previous relationships.
(c) Unfulfilled dreams.
(d) Childhood.

4. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?
(a) Ignored.
(b) Abadoned.
(c) Reconsidered.
(d) Trusted.

5. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To remain committed to the marriage.
(b) To avoid affairs in the future.
(c) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
(d) To make a public relationship with the lover.

Short Answer Questions

1. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?

2. How does chapter number 1 conclude?

3. The introduction addresses which of these questions?

4. How do women usually react to the discovery of an affair?

5. Who is the book's primary audience?

Short Essay Questions

1. How is romantic love described?

2. What is the fundamental situation of any marriage post-affair which is addressed by Chapter 4?

3. When an affair is discovered, what is the effect on the hurt partner?

4. How is unrequited love described?

5. What is the fundamental difference in reactions between the hurt and unfaithful partners to the discovery of an affair?

6. How does the book address post-affair healing?

7. As discussed in Chapter 4, Is is possible to repair a marriage post-affair?

8. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?

9. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?

10. How must the affair be analyzed in order to move forward in building trust in the relationship?

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