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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
(a) Unfaithful.
(b) Victim.
(c) Lover.
(d) Betrayed.

2. After an affair is discovered, how is the personal identity of hurt partner affected?
(a) It is lost.
(b) It is recreated.
(c) It is improved.
(d) It is stabilized.

3. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
(a) They need time to sort out.
(b) They can be resolved.
(c) They must be addressed.
(d) They should be ignored.

4. The introduction addresses which of these questions?
(a) How long did it take to write the book?
(b) Who is the book written for?
(c) When was the book written?
(d) When was the book written?

5. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They cannot accurately express their emotions.
(b) They regret the time lost with their partner.
(c) They compare themselves to the lover.
(d) They lose the sense of being special.

Short Answer Questions

1. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?

2. All extramarital affairs are viewed in which way by the text?

3. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?

4. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?

5. How does chapter number 1 conclude?

Short Essay Questions

1. How does the book address post-affair healing?

2. What does the author recommend the couple do after deciding to rebuild their marriage?

3. Who is the book's intended secondary audience?

4. Why do couples often feel they are incompatible?

5. What steps does the author take to minimize emotionally-charged labels associated with the affair?

6. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?

7. For whom is the book primarily written?

8. Why is it necessary for an affair to be understood?

9. How is romantic love described?

10. How does the presence of children in a marriage affect the unfaithful partner in regards to the affair?

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