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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
(a) They withdraw.
(b) They are unsure.
(c) They are ready.
(d) They need time.

2. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
(a) Passionate lust.
(b) Romantic love.
(c) Uncontrollable desire.
(d) Deep friendship.

3. After considering the economic impacts of divorce, a couple may come to understand which reality about their relationship?
(a) The need to provide for their children.
(b) The financial burden of the affair.
(c) The reasoning behind their financial arguments.
(d) The rationale for remaining in the relationship.

4. The introduction addresses which of these questions?
(a) Who is the book written for?
(b) When was the book written?
(c) When was the book written?
(d) How long did it take to write the book?

5. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Previous relationships.
(b) Childhood.
(c) Gender-based.
(d) Unfulfilled dreams.

Short Answer Questions

1. Connecting with friends and family in the wake of an affair is perceived how by the hurt partner?

2. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?

3. A person contemplating an extramarital affair will most likely view this book in which way?

4. The euphoria felt from the affair can be attributed to which reality?

5. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?

Short Essay Questions

1. As discussed in Chapter 4, Is is possible to repair a marriage post-affair?

2. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?

3. How does an unfaithful partner conduct an affair over a period of time, and what is their emotional reaction upon discovery?

4. What is the fundamental situation of any marriage post-affair which is addressed by Chapter 4?

5. How does the author characterize an affair?

6. What steps does the author take to minimize emotionally-charged labels associated with the affair?

7. How is the presence of violent thoughts in the hurt partner related to the discovery of the affair?

8. Who is the book's intended secondary audience?

9. How does the book address post-affair healing?

10. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?

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