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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. The author of the book can be described in which way?
(a) A woman with an advanced degree.
(b) A man with a medical degree.
(c) A man with a religious background.
(d) A woman with no formal training.

2. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) Without judgment.
(b) Without reacting.
(c) With concentration.
(d) With love.

3. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?
(a) They blame God for their suffering.
(b) They reject the sacredness of marriage.
(c) They convert to a different religion.
(d) They find solace in church.

4. Connecting with friends and family in the wake of an affair is perceived how by the hurt partner?
(a) Tenuous and slow.
(b) Easy and necessary.
(c) Difficult and painful.
(d) Instant and deep.

5. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
(a) Deep friendship.
(b) Romantic love.
(c) Uncontrollable desire.
(d) Passionate lust.

Short Answer Questions

1. When deciding on the future of their relationship, a couple should consider which effect on the children?

2. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?

3. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?

4. The person involved in the relationship, but who is not one of the married partners, is termed which of the following?

5. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?

Short Essay Questions

1. Where do unrealistic expectations of love and marriage come from?

2. What does the author recommend the couple do after deciding to rebuild their marriage?

3. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?

4. How must the affair be analyzed in order to move forward in building trust in the relationship?

5. For whom is the book primarily written?

6. How is the presence of violent thoughts in the hurt partner related to the discovery of the affair?

7. How is romantic love described?

8. How does the text address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 1?

9. How does the presence of children in a marriage affect the unfaithful partner in regards to the affair?

10. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?

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