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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How does chapter number 1 conclude?
(a) Explanation of psychological impacts on the hurt partner.
(b) Discussion of gender-typical reactions of hurt partners.
(c) Listing of behaviors to expect from hurt partners in the future.
(d) Comparison of hurt and unfaithful partner rationalizations.

2. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?
(a) Loss of religious faith.
(b) Loss of control over mind and body.
(c) Loss of connection with others.
(d) Loss of personal identity.

3. The most fundamental situation faced by the partners in a marriage post-affair is which of the following?
(a) How to regain sexual intimacy.
(b) How to forgive and forget.
(c) How to trust again.
(d) How to recommit to the marriage.

4. One partner may assume that the relationship is in which state?
(a) Deeply flawed and dysfunctional.
(b) Unrecognizable from its origins.
(c) Damaged beyond repair.
(d) Stale and unable to move forward.

5. The unfaithful partner may experience physical changes from romantic love that can be expected to last how long?
(a) The rest of their life.
(b) A short time.
(c) When they're with their lover.
(d) Throughout the affair.

Short Answer Questions

1. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?

2. The overall length of the introduction can be described with which term?

3. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?

4. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?

5. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

Short Essay Questions

1. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?

2. How is unrequited love described?

3. Why do family members find it difficult to support a hurt partner during their time of crisis after the discovery of an affair?

4. What does the author recommend the couple do after deciding to rebuild their marriage?

5. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?

6. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?

7. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?

8. Why do couples often feel they are incompatible?

9. How is romantic love described?

10. How must the affair be analyzed in order to move forward in building trust in the relationship?

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