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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
(a) Unforgiveable.
(b) Unjustified.
(c) Unbelievable.
(d) Unrequited.

2. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?
(a) An inability to emphathize with the hurt partner.
(b) A lack of communication about their whereabouts.
(c) A pattern of staying late after work.
(d) A tendency to distance themselves from the children.

3. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?
(a) Ignored.
(b) Trusted.
(c) Reconsidered.
(d) Abadoned.

4. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
(b) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(c) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.
(d) Disengage from the marriage even further.

5. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Unrealistic.
(b) Accepted.
(c) Dangerous.
(d) Common.

Short Answer Questions

1. A person contemplating an extramarital affair will most likely view this book in which way?

2. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?

3. When working through an affair, the majority of the typical concerns are experienced by whom?

4. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?

5. After an affair is discovered, how is the personal identity of hurt partner affected?

Short Essay Questions

1. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?

2. As discussed in Chapter 4, Is is possible to repair a marriage post-affair?

3. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?

4. What steps does the author take to minimize emotionally-charged labels associated with the affair?

5. How does an unfaithful partner conduct an affair over a period of time, and what is their emotional reaction upon discovery?

6. How is romantic love described?

7. How does the text address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 1?

8. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?

9. Who is the book's intended secondary audience?

10. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?

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