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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
(a) Eleven.
(b) Five.
(c) Nine.
(d) Seven.

2. The author of the book can be described in which way?
(a) A woman with no formal training.
(b) A man with a medical degree.
(c) A woman with an advanced degree.
(d) A man with a religious background.

3. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Gender-based.
(b) Unfulfilled dreams.
(c) Previous relationships.
(d) Childhood.

4. When friends and family withdraw from the unfaithful partner, who can provide a temporary substitute?
(a) Religous leaders.
(b) Work colleagues.
(c) Professional therapists.
(d) The lover.

5. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) With love.
(b) With concentration.
(c) Without judgment.
(d) Without reacting.

Short Answer Questions

1. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?

2. If a couple does not adequately communicate their desires and needs, they may begin to view each other in which way?

3. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?

4. How does chapter number 1 conclude?

5. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?

Short Essay Questions

1. Where do unrealistic expectations of love and marriage come from?

2. What steps does the author take to minimize emotionally-charged labels associated with the affair?

3. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?

4. How does the book address post-affair healing?

5. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?

6. How does the text address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 1?

7. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?

8. What is the fundamental situation of any marriage post-affair which is addressed by Chapter 4?

9. For whom is the book primarily written?

10. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?

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