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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If the expectations of love and marriage are not modified, they can lead to which type of relationship?
(a) Dysfunctional.
(b) Loveless.
(c) Abusive.
(d) Unfaithful.

2. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?
(a) They invent new ways to lie.
(b) They enjoy the thrill of lying.
(c) They teach their children how to lie.
(d) They grow tired of lying.

3. How do children typically respond to the unfaithful partner?
(a) With fear.
(b) With compassion.
(c) With acceptance.
(d) With anger.

4. Women typically view an affair in which way compared with men?
(a) Complicating and difficult.
(b) Fun and distracting.
(c) Healthy and necessary.
(d) Sad and lonely.

5. Basic goals and new boundaries should be decided on by whom?
(a) The partners and the lover.
(b) The hurt partner and the marriage counselor.
(c) Both partners.
(d) The unfaithful partner and a religious leader.

Short Answer Questions

1. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?

2. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?

3. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?

4. What is the first step in post-affair healing?

5. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?

Short Essay Questions

1. How does an unfaithful partner conduct an affair over a period of time, and what is their emotional reaction upon discovery?

2. How does the text address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 1?

3. Who is the book's intended secondary audience?

4. What is the fundamental situation of any marriage post-affair which is addressed by Chapter 4?

5. What is the fundamental difference in reactions between the hurt and unfaithful partners to the discovery of an affair?

6. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?

7. How is romantic love described?

8. How does the author characterize an affair?

9. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?

10. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?

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