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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?
2. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
3. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?
4. How do women usually react to the discovery of an affair?
5. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
Short Essay Questions
1. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?
2. What is the fundamental situation of any marriage post-affair which is addressed by Chapter 4?
3. What steps does the author take to minimize emotionally-charged labels associated with the affair?
4. Why do family members find it difficult to support a hurt partner during their time of crisis after the discovery of an affair?
5. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?
6. How does the presence of children in a marriage affect the unfaithful partner in regards to the affair?
7. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?
8. For whom is the book primarily written?
9. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?
10. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
Essay Topics
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
Discuss how an affair can be understood in context with a timeline of critical life events.
Include three critical life events that could influence the timing of an affair.
Essay Topic 2
The lover in an extramarital affair can have a deep effect on the sexual intimacy issues experienced by the couple.
Analyze three ways in which the lover can directly or indirectly affect a couple's sexual intimacy.
Essay Topic 3
Choose a case study from the book in which the affair has been willingly disclosed by the unfaithful partner. Based on the discussions in the book, what would you expect would be the next steps the couple would take to rebuild their relationship? Explain three next steps the couple should take.
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