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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?
(a) They find solace in church.
(b) They convert to a different religion.
(c) They blame God for their suffering.
(d) They reject the sacredness of marriage.

2. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Undergo couples counseling.
(b) Decide mutually to forget them.
(c) Examine their origins.
(d) Critique each others' beliefs.

3. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?
(a) Abadoned.
(b) Reconsidered.
(c) Trusted.
(d) Ignored.

4. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?
(a) Working to recommit on an intimate level.
(b) Telling the children about the affair.
(c) Deciding whether to separate or stay together.
(d) Moving the unfaithful partner out of the house.

5. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
(a) They can be resolved.
(b) They need time to sort out.
(c) They must be addressed.
(d) They should be ignored.

Short Answer Questions

1. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?

2. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?

3. The euphoria felt from the affair can be attributed to which reality?

4. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?

5. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?

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