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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Critique each others' beliefs.
(b) Undergo couples counseling.
(c) Examine their origins.
(d) Decide mutually to forget them.

2. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Unrealistic.
(b) Dangerous.
(c) Common.
(d) Accepted.

3. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
(a) Unjustified.
(b) Unbelievable.
(c) Unforgiveable.
(d) Unrequited.

4. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?
(a) The behaviors are attempts to get the attention of the unfaithful partner.
(b) The behaviors are attempts to remember life before the relationship.
(c) The behaviors are attempts to get even with the lover.
(d) The behaviors are attempts to dull pain and reduce anxiety.

5. The euphoria felt from the affair can be attributed to which reality?
(a) Secretive nature of the relationship.
(b) Chemical changes in the brain.
(c) Acceptance for personal shortcomings.
(d) Adrenaline rushes during sex.

Short Answer Questions

1. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?

2. Who is the book's primary audience?

3. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?

4. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?

5. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

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