2. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Understanding childhood experiences.
(b) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(c) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(d) Healing after an affair.

3. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
(a) Making an appointment to see a marriage counselor.
(b) Discussing the secret nature of the affair.
(c) Discovering the identity of the lover.
(d) Managing emotions until feelings can normalize.

4. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After deciding to divorce.
(b) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(c) After recommitting to the relationship.
(d) After learning about the affair.

5. When friends and family withdraw from the unfaithful partner, who can provide a temporary substitute?
(a) Religous leaders.
(b) Work colleagues.
(c) Professional therapists.
(d) The lover.

6. When the affair is discovered, what is the typical reaction of the unfaithful partner?
(a) Anger and jealousy.
(b) Disappointment.
(c) Emotional relief.
(d) Fear and loathing.

7. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
(a) Self-disgust.
(b) Jealousy.
(c) Shame.
(d) Anger.

8. For trust to be regained in a relationship, what must happen?
(a) The root causes of the affair must be eliminated.
(b) The lover must be involved in couples counseling.
(c) The affair must be analyzed from all angles.
(d) The hurt partner must have an affair as well.

9. The introduction addresses which of these questions?
(a) Who is the book written for?
(b) When was the book written?
(c) When was the book written?
(d) How long did it take to write the book?

10. Who is the book's primary audience?
(a) A couple who want to rebuild their relationship after an affair.
(b) A lover who wants to beging a new relationship outside the affair.
(c) A hurt partner who wants to get even with the unfaithful partner.
(d) An unfaithful partner who is unsure about the status of their marriage.

11. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
(a) Passionate.
(b) Mature.
(c) Deep.
(d) Fulfilling.

12. If a couple does not adequately communicate their desires and needs, they may begin to view each other in which way?
(a) Dissimilar.
(b) Unsupportive.
(c) Judgmental.
(d) Detached.

13. While hurt female partners typically become depressed, how do male hurt partners typically react?
(a) They become fearful.
(b) They become angry.
(c) They become sad.
(d) They become lonely.

14. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?
(a) They are confronted.
(b) They are explained away.
(c) They are ignored.
(d) They are accepted.

15. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Undergo couples counseling.
(b) Critique each others' beliefs.
(c) Decide mutually to forget them.
(d) Examine their origins.