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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Post-affair testing for AIDS is described in which way?
(a) Important for the lover.
(b) Optional for the unfaithful partner.
(c) Too emotional to be discussed.
(d) Necessary for both partners.

2. How is masturbation viewed by the text?
(a) A sign of dissatisfaction.
(b) A normal behavior.
(c) An individual preference.
(d) Indicative of marital stress.

3. What could define the way a person listens?
(a) Childhood experiences.
(b) Role in the affair.
(c) Prior assumptions.
(d) Emotional state.

4. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?
(a) Strong.
(b) Foolish.
(c) Needed.
(d) Ignored.

5. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?
(a) Five.
(b) Eleven.
(c) Seven.
(d) Nine.

Short Answer Questions

1. How should children connect with others?

2. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?

3. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?

4. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?

5. A graph is provided for couples to chart behaviors that can be preformed in which timeframe?

Short Essay Questions

1. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?

2. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?

3. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?

4. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?

5. What is a schema?

6. How can trust in a relationship be restored?

7. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?

8. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?

9. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?

10. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?

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