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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How should children connect with others?
(a) Cognitively.
(b) Mentally.
(c) Emotionally.
(d) Physically.

2. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It may be avoided.
(b) It could increase.
(c) It should dissipate.
(d) It will not be eliminated.

3. Why do some partners mistakenly believe that verbal abuse must be accepted?
(a) It is how their parents treated them.
(b) It is part of their personality.
(c) It is justified after the affair.
(d) It is deserved by the unfaithful partner.

4. Some people refuse to acknowledge which action by their partner?
(a) Sincere progress towards change.
(b) Efforts made to discuss the betrayal.
(c) Recommitment to the marriage.
(d) Heartfelt apologies for the affair.

5. A list is provided in Chapter 8 to help people understand the common areas of shame associated with which of the following?
(a) Their bodies.
(b) Their desires.
(c) Their expectations.
(d) Their fantasies.

Short Answer Questions

1. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?

2. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?

3. Avoiding change results from which type of block experienced by the person?

4. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?

5. Chapter 9 concludes with a document that is meant to help a couple in which way?

Short Essay Questions

1. In the process of rebuilding trust, what is a couple most likely to come to a stalemate over?

2. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?

3. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?

4. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?

5. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?

6. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?

7. How can history repeat itself through children of unfaithful parents growing up to be unfaithful adults?

8. What experience can influence an individual's ability to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?

9. As discussed in Chapter 9, why are there hazards associated with forgiveness?

10. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?

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