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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(b) Overcoming resistance to change.
(c) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(d) Methods to change behavior.

2. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
(a) Their demands.
(b) Their frustration.
(c) Their hurt.
(d) Their needs.

3. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
(a) Ease.
(b) Productivity.
(c) Effectiveness.
(d) Cost.

4. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
(a) Jeaousy.
(b) Rage.
(c) Blame.
(d) Fear.

5. How does the book view sex tools?
(a) Integral to maintaining the excitement in intimacy.
(b) Dangerous if used only with the lover.
(c) Healthy if acceptable to both partners.
(d) Unnecessary if the marriage is working.

Short Answer Questions

1. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?

2. After an emotional confrontation, how do women typically feel?

3. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?

4. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?

5. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?

Short Essay Questions

1. What are the assumptions couples make about orgasms?

2. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?

3. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?

4. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?

5. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?

6. What is a schema?

7. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?

8. As discussed in Chapter 9, why are there hazards associated with forgiveness?

9. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?

10. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?

(see the answer keys)

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