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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 4 - Confronting Your Doubts and Fears.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. A person contemplating an extramarital affair will most likely view this book in which way?
(a) Judgmental and tedious.
(b) Helpful and enlightening.
(c) Insulting and wrong.
(d) Long and not applicable.

2. Why does an affair need to be understood?
(a) The hurt partner may never forget.
(b) It may affect the children too deeply.
(c) It could be the end of the relationship.
(d) The lover may not leave the relationship.

3. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?
(a) They are confronted.
(b) They are accepted.
(c) They are explained away.
(d) They are ignored.

4. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?
(a) The behaviors are attempts to remember life before the relationship.
(b) The behaviors are attempts to get the attention of the unfaithful partner.
(c) The behaviors are attempts to dull pain and reduce anxiety.
(d) The behaviors are attempts to get even with the lover.

5. The person involved in the relationship, but who is not one of the married partners, is termed which of the following?
(a) Hurt.
(b) Lover.
(c) Victimizer.
(d) Betrayer.

Short Answer Questions

1. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?

2. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?

3. Most relationships begin with which emotion?

4. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?

5. On what are relationships based?

(see the answer key)

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