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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 4 - Confronting Your Doubts and Fears.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?
(a) They enjoy the thrill of lying.
(b) They teach their children how to lie.
(c) They grow tired of lying.
(d) They invent new ways to lie.

2. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
(a) With willingness to work at the relationship.
(b) With acceptance and forgiveness for the affair.
(c) With desire to keep their family together at all costs.
(d) With acknowledgement of the level of damage from the affair.

3. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
(a) Discussing the secret nature of the affair.
(b) Discovering the identity of the lover.
(c) Managing emotions until feelings can normalize.
(d) Making an appointment to see a marriage counselor.

4. When deciding on the future of their relationship, a couple should consider which effect on the children?
(a) Mental.
(b) Financial.
(c) Emotional.
(d) Physical.

5. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
(a) Jealousy.
(b) Shame.
(c) Anger.
(d) Self-disgust.

Short Answer Questions

1. The unfaithful partner often wants to reconnect in their marriage in order to stop feeling which emotion?

2. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?

3. When some hurt partners discover the affair, they feel an emotional toll equal or greater to which event?

4. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?

5. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?

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