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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 4 - Confronting Your Doubts and Fears.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. What is the main purpose of the book?
(a) To advise a couple on how to regain sexual intimacy.
(b) To instruct a couple on how to stay married.
(c) To guide a couple through a divorce.
(d) To help a couple survive an affair.

2. For trust to be regained in a relationship, what must happen?
(a) The lover must be involved in couples counseling.
(b) The affair must be analyzed from all angles.
(c) The root causes of the affair must be eliminated.
(d) The hurt partner must have an affair as well.

3. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?
(a) An extramarital affair.
(b) Jealousy and anger.
(c) Temporary separation.
(d) Bitterness and resentment.

4. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
(a) Fulfilling.
(b) Passionate.
(c) Deep.
(d) Mature.

5. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?
(a) They convert to a different religion.
(b) They reject the sacredness of marriage.
(c) They find solace in church.
(d) They blame God for their suffering.

Short Answer Questions

1. Although many hurt partners feel that 'good things happen to good people,' how does the discovery of the affair affect this sentiment?

2. If the unfaithful partner feels committed to the lover, how could this affect their feelings about the affair?

3. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

4. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?

5. When the affair is discovered, what is the typical reaction of the unfaithful partner?

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