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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 4 - Confronting Your Doubts and Fears.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They compare themselves to the lover.
(b) They regret the time lost with their partner.
(c) They cannot accurately express their emotions.
(d) They lose the sense of being special.

2. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Common.
(b) Accepted.
(c) Unrealistic.
(d) Dangerous.

3. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
(a) To create a new language for the partners.
(b) To help the couple speak openly about their problems.
(c) To avoid emotionally charged labels.
(d) To eliminate stereotypes about infidelity.

4. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
(a) They are unsure.
(b) They need time.
(c) They withdraw.
(d) They are ready.

5. A person contemplating an extramarital affair will most likely view this book in which way?
(a) Helpful and enlightening.
(b) Judgmental and tedious.
(c) Insulting and wrong.
(d) Long and not applicable.

Short Answer Questions

1. When deciding on the future of their relationship, a couple should consider which effect on the children?

2. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?

3. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?

4. Why does an affair need to be understood?

5. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?

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