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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 4 - Confronting Your Doubts and Fears.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. The most fundamental situation faced by the partners in a marriage post-affair is which of the following?
(a) How to recommit to the marriage.
(b) How to forgive and forget.
(c) How to trust again.
(d) How to regain sexual intimacy.

2. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To remain committed to the marriage.
(b) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
(c) To avoid affairs in the future.
(d) To make a public relationship with the lover.

3. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?
(a) The behaviors are attempts to get the attention of the unfaithful partner.
(b) The behaviors are attempts to dull pain and reduce anxiety.
(c) The behaviors are attempts to remember life before the relationship.
(d) The behaviors are attempts to get even with the lover.

4. What is the main purpose of the book?
(a) To advise a couple on how to regain sexual intimacy.
(b) To instruct a couple on how to stay married.
(c) To guide a couple through a divorce.
(d) To help a couple survive an affair.

5. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
(a) Jealousy.
(b) Self-disgust.
(c) Shame.
(d) Anger.

Short Answer Questions

1. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?

2. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?

3. Using mental time projection will help the partners accomplish which task?

4. Women typically view an affair in which way compared with men?

5. Most relationships begin with which emotion?

(see the answer key)

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