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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. How does the book view sex tools?
2. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
3. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
4. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?
5. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
Short Essay Questions
1. What is a schema?
2. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?
3. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
4. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
5. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
6. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?
7. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?
8. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?
9. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
10. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
Compare and contrast five responses on the part of the hurt partner vs. the unfaithful partner after the disclosure of an affair.
Essay Topic 2
Discuss how an affair can be understood in context with a timeline of critical life events.
Include three critical life events that could influence the timing of an affair.
Essay Topic 3
The intended audience of this book is couples who have chosen to work towards rebuilding their relationship. Describe three ways in which the book would change if the intended audience was unfaithful partners who chose to work on a relationship with their lover instead of the hurt partner.
This section contains 642 words
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