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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. A hurt partner may avoid demanding change if they feel it will lead to which situation?
2. Partners may feel that it is unacceptable to take which action?
3. How do most unfaithful partners describe sex with their lover?
4. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
5. The genuine intention of an individual may be lost if the partner feels the behavior is only occurring for which reason?
Short Essay Questions
1. How can trust in a relationship be restored?
2. In the process of rebuilding trust, what is a couple most likely to come to a stalemate over?
3. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?
4. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
5. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
6. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
7. What are some assumptions an unfaithful partner could make about sexual intimacy?
8. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?
9. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?
10. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
Discuss how an affair can be understood in context with a timeline of critical life events.
Include three critical life events that could influence the timing of an affair.
Essay Topic 2
The lover in an extramarital affair can have a deep effect on the sexual intimacy issues experienced by the couple.
Analyze three ways in which the lover can directly or indirectly affect a couple's sexual intimacy.
Essay Topic 3
Explain a typical reaction as a hurt partner, an unfaithful partner, and in response to the requirement of intimate talking and listening to rebuild the relationship from the stereotypical point of view of the male gender.
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