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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. Destructive behaviors can be forgiven without which of the following?
2. A hurt partner may avoid demanding change if they feel it will lead to which situation?
3. Avoiding change results from which type of block experienced by the person?
4. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?
5. How does the text refer to childhood experiences?
Short Essay Questions
1. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
2. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?
3. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?
4. What is a schema?
5. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?
6. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
7. Why does the author recommend a 'covenant of promises' at the end of Chapter 9?
8. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
9. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?
10. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
Choose a case study from the book in which the affair has been willingly disclosed by the unfaithful partner. Based on the discussions in the book, what would you expect would be the next steps the couple would take to rebuild their relationship? Explain three next steps the couple should take.
Essay Topic 2
Compare and contrast the realities and assumptions surrounding unrequited and romantic love.
How are these concepts related to mature love?
Essay Topic 3
What are the three stages of post-affair healing?
Illustrate each stage with an case study of a couple experiencing this stage provided in the book.
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