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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. If sexual desires change, couples may assume this will lead to which outcome?
2. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?
3. A graph is provided for couples to chart behaviors that can be preformed in which timeframe?
4. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
5. Some people refuse to acknowledge which action by their partner?
Short Essay Questions
1. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
2. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?
3. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
4. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?
5. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?
6. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
7. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
8. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?
9. Why does the author recommend a 'covenant of promises' at the end of Chapter 9?
10. How can history repeat itself through children of unfaithful parents growing up to be unfaithful adults?
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
Compare and contrast five responses on the part of the hurt partner vs. the unfaithful partner after the disclosure of an affair.
Essay Topic 2
When a person refuses to change, it is often due to cognitive blocks formed by false rationalizations.
Citing three examples, how could you convince a person that the cognitive blocks, that are inhibiting the necessary change, are untrue?
Essay Topic 3
Even after a couple has recommitted to their marriage, the unfaithful partner could decide to embark on another extramarital affair.
What are three reasons this may occur?
What are three warning signs the could indicate this possibility?
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