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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. The genuine intention of an individual may be lost if the partner feels the behavior is only occurring for which reason?
2. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?
3. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
4. Exploring and learning about the affair is achieved through which process?
5. If sexual desires change, couples may assume this will lead to which outcome?
Short Essay Questions
1. What experience can influence an individual's ability to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
2. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
3. In the process of rebuilding trust, what is a couple most likely to come to a stalemate over?
4. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
5. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?
6. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?
7. How can trust in a relationship be restored?
8. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?
9. What is a schema?
10. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
What are the three stages of post-affair healing?
Illustrate each stage with an case study of a couple experiencing this stage provided in the book.
Essay Topic 2
Discuss how an affair can be understood in context with a timeline of critical life events.
Include three critical life events that could influence the timing of an affair.
Essay Topic 3
The lover in an extramarital affair can have a deep effect on the sexual intimacy issues experienced by the couple.
Analyze three ways in which the lover can directly or indirectly affect a couple's sexual intimacy.
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