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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
2. The unfaithful partner often wants to reconnect in their marriage in order to stop feeling which emotion?
3. One partner may assume that the relationship is in which state?
4. The introduction addresses which of these questions?
5. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
Short Essay Questions
1. How is the hurt partner's sense of self affected by the discovery of an affair?
2. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?
3. Why is it necessary for an affair to be understood?
4. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
5. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?
6. How does the presence of children in a marriage affect the unfaithful partner in regards to the affair?
7. What steps does the author take to minimize emotionally-charged labels associated with the affair?
8. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?
9. How is the presence of violent thoughts in the hurt partner related to the discovery of the affair?
10. How does the book address post-affair healing?
Essay Topics
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
The effect of the affair on the children is an important consideration for both partners to remember.
Compare and contrast the feelings the hurt and unfaithful partners have towards the children regarding the affair.
Essay Topic 2
A hurt partner can choose whether or not to forgive the unfaithful partner.
How does the process of forgiveness align with the losses experienced by the hurt partner?
Cite three examples.
Essay Topic 3
What are the three stages of post-affair healing?
Illustrate each stage with an case study of a couple experiencing this stage provided in the book.
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