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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. For trust to be regained in a relationship, what must happen?
2. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
3. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
4. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?
5. Who is the book's primary audience?
Short Essay Questions
1. How is unrequited love described?
2. For whom is the book primarily written?
3. What does the author recommend the couple do after deciding to rebuild their marriage?
4. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
5. When an affair is discovered, what is the effect on the hurt partner?
6. What is the fundamental difference in reactions between the hurt and unfaithful partners to the discovery of an affair?
7. How is the presence of violent thoughts in the hurt partner related to the discovery of the affair?
8. How does the presence of children in a marriage affect the unfaithful partner in regards to the affair?
9. As discussed in Chapter 4, Is is possible to repair a marriage post-affair?
10. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?
Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:
Essay Topic 1
Compare and contrast the realities and assumptions surrounding unrequited and romantic love.
How are these concepts related to mature love?
Essay Topic 2
A hurt partner can choose whether or not to forgive the unfaithful partner.
How does the process of forgiveness align with the losses experienced by the hurt partner?
Cite three examples.
Essay Topic 3
The author provides physical documents that couples are advised to fill out and sign to establish a public record of their commitment to the marriage. Choose one of these documents and explain its overall purpose and its relevancy in rebuilding the relationship.
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