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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. What could define the way a person listens?
(a) Prior assumptions.
(b) Childhood experiences.
(c) Emotional state.
(d) Role in the affair.
2. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
3. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
4. Why do some individuals refuse to change?
(a) They are sad.
(b) They are angry.
(c) They are lonely.
(d) They are depressed.
5. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?
(a) Refuse to enter a relationship.
(b) Seek out a partner who will commit equally.
(c) Avoid an affair at all cost.
(d) Become an unfaithful partner in their marriage.
Short Answer Questions
1. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?
2. What is the root cause of the majority of marital dysfunction?
3. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
4. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?
5. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?
Short Essay Questions
1. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
2. How can trust in a relationship be restored?
3. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?
4. What are some assumptions an unfaithful partner could make about sexual intimacy?
5. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?
6. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?
7. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
8. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
9. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?
10. Why does the author recommend a 'covenant of promises' at the end of Chapter 9?
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