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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) A change in sexual desires.
(b) The affair is continuing.
(c) A lack of sexual ability.
(d) Their marriage is over.
2. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
(a) Be accepted by both partners.
(b) Be justified the unfaithful partner.
(c) Be replaced by positive feelings.
(d) Be forgotten with the affair.
3. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?
(a) The lover.
(b) The unfaithful partner.
(c) Both partners.
(d) The hurt partner.
4. How many essential childhood experiences are identified by the text?
5. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) Both partners.
(b) The hurt partner.
(c) The unfaithful partner.
(d) The lover.
Short Answer Questions
1. Some people refuse to acknowledge which action by their partner?
2. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?
3. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?
4. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?
5. Why do some individuals refuse to change?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
2. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
3. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?
4. What are the assumptions couples make about orgasms?
5. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?
6. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?
7. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
8. What is a schema?
9. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
10. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
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