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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
2. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
3. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
(a) A partner having an affair.
(b) A deep-rooted fear of losing a child.
(c) A comparison to the happiness of their parents.
(d) A better understanding of relationship problems.
4. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
(a) Critical life events.
(b) Childhood experiences.
(c) Fear of losing a partner.
(d) Unfair circumstances.
5. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) The lover.
(b) Both partners.
(c) The hurt partner.
(d) The unfaithful partner.
Short Answer Questions
1. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?
2. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?
3. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
4. The author uses the term 'flip-flop' to describe which factor?
5. What is the process of assaulting a partner with verbal abuse?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
2. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?
3. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
4. What are some assumptions an unfaithful partner could make about sexual intimacy?
5. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?
6. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
7. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?
8. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
9. In the process of rebuilding trust, what is a couple most likely to come to a stalemate over?
10. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
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