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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
(a) Rage.
(b) Fear.
(c) Jeaousy.
(d) Blame.

2. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
(a) Critical life events.
(b) Fear of losing a partner.
(c) Childhood experiences.
(d) Unfair circumstances.

3. Exploring and learning about the affair is achieved through which process?
(a) Accepting the affair.
(b) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(c) Open communication.
(d) Intimate talk.

4. Who do children need to value in their lives?
(a) Their siblings.
(b) Their parents.
(c) Their friends.
(d) Themselves.

5. For communication to occur in the marriage, what must happen with the lover?
(a) The unfaithful partner must end the relationship with the lover.
(b) The hurt partner must accept the lover.
(c) The unfaithful partner mus understand their attraction to the lover.
(d) The hurt partner must confront the lover.

Short Answer Questions

1. How do most unfaithful partners describe sex with their lover?

2. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?

3. If a hurt partner remains committed to impossibly high standards, they most likely missed out on which childhood experience?

4. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?

5. Chapter seven is divided into sections based on which two skills?

Short Essay Questions

1. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?

2. As discussed in Chapter 9, why are there hazards associated with forgiveness?

3. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?

4. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?

5. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?

6. How can trust in a relationship be restored?

7. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?

8. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?

9. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?

10. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?

(see the answer keys)

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