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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Exploring and learning about the affair is achieved through which process?
(a) Open communication.
(b) Intimate talk.
(c) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(d) Accepting the affair.
2. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?
(a) It can affect their personal identity.
(b) It can trigger childhood memories.
(c) It can damage their self-esteem.
(d) It can deepen the pain of the affair.
3. Destructive behaviors can be forgiven without which of the following?
4. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) The unfaithful partner.
(b) The lover.
(c) The hurt partner.
(d) Both partners.
5. A listener should not engage in which action?
(a) Remaining silent.
(d) Asking for clarification.
Short Answer Questions
1. What is the process of assaulting a partner with verbal abuse?
2. How do most unfaithful partners describe sex with their lover?
3. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
4. If a hurt partner remains committed to impossibly high standards, they most likely missed out on which childhood experience?
5. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?
Short Essay Questions
1. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?
2. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?
3. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
4. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
5. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?
6. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?
7. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
8. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
9. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?
10. What are the assumptions couples make about orgasms?
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