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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Why are many individuals prevented from forgiving?
(a) They have unrealistic expectations about forgiveness.
(b) They feel they do not deserve forgiveness.
(c) They have wrong ideas about forgiveness.
(d) They do not believe in forgiveness.
2. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
3. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It may be avoided.
(b) It could increase.
(c) It should dissipate.
(d) It will not be eliminated.
4. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) A lack of sexual ability.
(b) A change in sexual desires.
(c) Their marriage is over.
(d) The affair is continuing.
5. How does the text refer to childhood experiences?
(a) Important relationship history.
(b) Formative development years.
(c) Key stages of life.
(d) Critical growth experiences.
Short Answer Questions
1. Partners may feel that it is unacceptable to take which action?
2. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
3. After an emotional confrontation, how do women typically feel?
4. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
5. Avoiding change results from which type of block experienced by the person?
Short Essay Questions
1. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
2. Why does the author recommend a 'covenant of promises' at the end of Chapter 9?
3. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
4. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?
5. How does the author describe forgiveness in Chapter 9?
6. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?
7. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
8. What is the 'flip-flop' factor described in Chapter 5?
9. How can trust in a relationship be restored?
10. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
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