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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?
(a) The unfaithful partner.
(b) The lover.
(c) The hurt partner.
(d) Both partners.
2. Some people refuse to acknowledge which action by their partner?
(a) Efforts made to discuss the betrayal.
(b) Recommitment to the marriage.
(c) Heartfelt apologies for the affair.
(d) Sincere progress towards change.
3. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
(a) Be justified the unfaithful partner.
(b) Be replaced by positive feelings.
(c) Be forgotten with the affair.
(d) Be accepted by both partners.
4. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?
(a) Those unique to each partner.
(b) Those needed to heal a marriage.
(c) Those integral to achieving full forgiveness.
(d) Those experienced by the hurt partner.
5. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
Short Answer Questions
1. What could define the way a person listens?
2. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?
3. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
4. A list is provided in Chapter 8 to help people understand the common areas of shame associated with which of the following?
5. For communication to occur in the marriage, what must happen with the lover?
Short Essay Questions
1. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?
2. In Chapter 6, the author recommends a graph for what reason?
3. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
4. As discussed in Chapter 9, why are there hazards associated with forgiveness?
5. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?
6. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?
7. What experience can influence an individual's ability to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
8. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
9. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?
10. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
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