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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Post-affair testing for AIDS is described in which way?
(a) Too emotional to be discussed.
(b) Important for the lover.
(c) Necessary for both partners.
(d) Optional for the unfaithful partner.
2. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?
(a) With the same fantasies.
(b) With the same frequency.
(c) With the same intensity.
(d) With the same duration.
3. A listener should not engage in which action?
(a) Remaining silent.
(d) Asking for clarification.
4. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
(a) Addressing the root causes of the affair.
(b) Recommitting fully to the relationship.
(c) Cutting off all communication to the lover.
(d) Changing personal behavior to display trustworthiness.
5. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
(a) Unfair circumstances.
(b) Childhood experiences.
(c) Fear of losing a partner.
(d) Critical life events.
Short Answer Questions
1. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?
2. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
3. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?
4. Some people refuse to acknowledge which action by their partner?
5. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?
Short Essay Questions
1. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
2. How can history repeat itself through children of unfaithful parents growing up to be unfaithful adults?
3. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
4. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
5. How can an affair positively affect a marriage?
6. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
7. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?
8. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?
9. What are some assumptions an unfaithful partner could make about sexual intimacy?
10. What experience can influence an individual's ability to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
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