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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
2. A list is provided in Chapter 8 to help people understand the common areas of shame associated with which of the following?
(a) Their expectations.
(b) Their bodies.
(c) Their fantasies.
(d) Their desires.
3. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
(a) They should be eliminated.
(b) They should be analyzed.
(c) They should be embraced.
(d) They should be ignored.
4. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) Methods to change behavior.
(b) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(c) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(d) Overcoming resistance to change.
5. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?
Short Answer Questions
1. For communication to occur in the marriage, what must happen with the lover?
2. Why are many individuals prevented from forgiving?
3. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
4. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?
5. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why is intimate talk necessary to learn?
2. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
3. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
4. What crucial skill is addressed in detail in Chapter 7?
5. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
6. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
7. Why does the author recommend a 'covenant of promises' at the end of Chapter 9?
8. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
9. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
10. How can history repeat itself through children of unfaithful parents growing up to be unfaithful adults?
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