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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
(a) Passionately and fully.
(b) Tentatively and earnestly.
(c) Freely and unconditionally.
(d) Openly and honestly.
2. A listener should not engage in which action?
(a) Remaining silent.
(b) Asking for clarification.
3. Why do unfaithful partners feel pressure to perform sex at a high satisfactory level with their partner?
(a) To avoid the hurt partner fearing the affair is continuing.
(b) To prove the marriage is worth salvaging.
(c) To regain sexual intimacy with the hurt partner.
(d) To compensate for the loss of the lover.
4. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(b) Methods to change behavior.
(c) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(d) Overcoming resistance to change.
5. For communication to occur in the marriage, what must happen with the lover?
(a) The unfaithful partner must end the relationship with the lover.
(b) The hurt partner must accept the lover.
(c) The unfaithful partner mus understand their attraction to the lover.
(d) The hurt partner must confront the lover.
Short Answer Questions
1. After an emotional confrontation, how do women typically feel?
2. Why are many individuals prevented from forgiving?
3. A hurt partner may avoid demanding change if they feel it will lead to which situation?
4. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
5. When trust has been destroyed, which emotion is logically prevalent?
Short Essay Questions
1. How can history repeat itself through children of unfaithful parents growing up to be unfaithful adults?
2. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
3. What are the assumptions couples make about orgasms?
4. As discussed in Chapter 9, why are there hazards associated with forgiveness?
5. In the process of rebuilding trust, what is a couple most likely to come to a stalemate over?
6. What should happen with behaviors that violate trust in a relationship?
7. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
8. Why do people typically exhibit behaviors in their comfort zone?
9. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
10. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?
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