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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
(a) They should be embraced.
(b) They should be ignored.
(c) They should be analyzed.
(d) They should be eliminated.
2. Future affairs will not be likely to occur if which action is taken?
(a) The underlying causes are examined and corrected.
(b) The unfaithful partner changes careers.
(c) The reasons for the affair are discussed with the lover.
(d) The hurt partner works to regain self-esteem.
3. If sex with the lover was good, the unfaithful partner will assume any problems during sex with the hurt partner is the fault of whom?
(a) The unfaithful partner.
(b) The lover.
(c) Both partners.
(d) The hurt partner.
4. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
5. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) A lack of sexual ability.
(b) A change in sexual desires.
(c) Their marriage is over.
(d) The affair is continuing.
Short Answer Questions
1. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
2. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
3. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
4. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
5. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
Short Essay Questions
1. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
2. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
3. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
4. Do men and women typically differ in their abilities to engage in intimate talk and intimate listening?
5. What will happen if one partner wants to change the sexual practices in their marriage?
6. Why is intimate listening necessary to learn?
7. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
8. If an individual is working to forgive, how can they address the negative behaviors of their partner?
9. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
10. What are some assumptions an unfaithful partner could make about sexual intimacy?
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