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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. All extramarital affairs are viewed in which way by the text?
(a) Damaging.
(b) Unforgivable.
(c) Excusable.
(d) Inevitable.
2. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?
(a) Deciding whether to separate or stay together.
(b) Telling the children about the affair.
(c) Working to recommit on an intimate level.
(d) Moving the unfaithful partner out of the house.
3. While hurt female partners typically become depressed, how do male hurt partners typically react?
(a) They become sad.
(b) They become lonely.
(c) They become angry.
(d) They become fearful.
4. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After learning about the affair.
(b) After recommitting to the relationship.
(c) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(d) After deciding to divorce.
5. Why does an affair need to be understood?
(a) It could be the end of the relationship.
(b) The hurt partner may never forget.
(c) It may affect the children too deeply.
(d) The lover may not leave the relationship.
Short Answer Questions
1. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
2. On what are relationships based?
3. The author of the book can be described in which way?
4. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
5. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
2. How does the author characterize an affair?
3. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?
4. How is romantic love described?
5. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?
6. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?
7. How is the hurt partner's sense of self affected by the discovery of an affair?
8. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?
9. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
10. How does an unfaithful partner conduct an affair over a period of time, and what is their emotional reaction upon discovery?
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