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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?
2. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
(a) They may have another affair.
(b) They may not abandon their lover.
(c) They may leave the hurt partner.
(d) They may disengage from the marriage.
3. How do children typically respond to the unfaithful partner?
(a) With anger.
(b) With fear.
(c) With acceptance.
(d) With compassion.
4. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
(a) To eliminate stereotypes about infidelity.
(b) To avoid emotionally charged labels.
(c) To help the couple speak openly about their problems.
(d) To create a new language for the partners.
5. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To avoid affairs in the future.
(b) To make a public relationship with the lover.
(c) To remain committed to the marriage.
(d) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
Short Answer Questions
1. After an affair is discovered, how is the personal identity of hurt partner affected?
2. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
3. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
4. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?
5. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?
Short Essay Questions
1. How is the hurt partner's sense of self affected by the discovery of an affair?
2. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?
3. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?
4. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
5. How does the presence of children in a marriage affect the unfaithful partner in regards to the affair?
6. Why do couples often feel they are incompatible?
7. How does the text address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 1?
8. Why is it necessary for an affair to be understood?
9. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
10. How does the book address post-affair healing?
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