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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
2. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
(a) With willingness to work at the relationship.
(b) With acceptance and forgiveness for the affair.
(c) With desire to keep their family together at all costs.
(d) With acknowledgement of the level of damage from the affair.
3. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
(a) Uncontrollable desire.
(b) Deep friendship.
(c) Romantic love.
(d) Passionate lust.
4. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?
(a) They are explained away.
(b) They are confronted.
(c) They are accepted.
(d) They are ignored.
5. Which idea is unlikely about the couple working through an extramarital affair?
(a) They are dysfunctional.
(b) They are stronger.
(c) They are incompatible.
(d) They are committed.
Short Answer Questions
1. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
2. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?
3. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
4. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?
5. The unfaithful partner often wants to reconnect in their marriage in order to stop feeling which emotion?
Short Essay Questions
1. How does the author characterize an affair?
2. For whom is the book primarily written?
3. How is the hurt partner's sense of self affected by the discovery of an affair?
4. How does an unfaithful partner conduct an affair over a period of time, and what is their emotional reaction upon discovery?
5. Why do family members find it difficult to support a hurt partner during their time of crisis after the discovery of an affair?
6. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
7. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?
8. How is unrequited love described?
9. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?
10. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?
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