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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
2. What is the main purpose of the book?
(a) To advise a couple on how to regain sexual intimacy.
(b) To instruct a couple on how to stay married.
(c) To guide a couple through a divorce.
(d) To help a couple survive an affair.
3. When friends and family withdraw from the unfaithful partner, who can provide a temporary substitute?
(a) The lover.
(b) Work colleagues.
(c) Professional therapists.
(d) Religous leaders.
4. The author of the book can be described in which way?
(a) A woman with no formal training.
(b) A woman with an advanced degree.
(c) A man with a medical degree.
(d) A man with a religious background.
5. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?
(a) Withdrawing sexually.
(b) Suicidal thoughts.
(c) Taking the children.
(d) Wanting a divorce.
Short Answer Questions
1. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
2. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?
3. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
4. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
5. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why is it necessary for an affair to be understood?
2. Why do couples often feel they are incompatible?
3. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?
4. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
5. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
6. What is the fundamental difference in reactions between the hurt and unfaithful partners to the discovery of an affair?
7. How must the affair be analyzed in order to move forward in building trust in the relationship?
8. How does the author characterize an affair?
9. How is unrequited love described?
10. Where do unrealistic expectations of love and marriage come from?
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