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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?
(a) The sense of self of the unfaithful partner may have benefited.
(b) The relgious beliefs of the unfaithful partner may be devastated.
(c) The sense of self-respect of the hurt partner may be strengthened.
(d) The personal identity of the hurt partner may be unaffected.
2. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
3. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
(a) To avoid emotionally charged labels.
(b) To eliminate stereotypes about infidelity.
(c) To help the couple speak openly about their problems.
(d) To create a new language for the partners.
4. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?
5. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
(a) Removing the lover from the picture.
(b) Rekindling romantic feelings.
(c) Rebuilding the relationship.
(d) Holding a recommitment ceremony.
Short Answer Questions
1. Both partners should listen in which way?
2. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?
3. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?
4. An unfaithful partner may experience which emotion after leaving the lover?
5. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
Short Essay Questions
1. For whom is the book primarily written?
2. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
3. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?
4. What does the author recommend the couple do after deciding to rebuild their marriage?
5. What are the assumptions couples make about orgasms?
6. What is the fundamental difference in reactions between the hurt and unfaithful partners to the discovery of an affair?
7. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
8. How can telling the truth about the affair help the unfaithful partner?
9. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
10. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
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