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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?
(a) A tendency to distance themselves from the children.
(b) A pattern of staying late after work.
(c) A lack of communication about their whereabouts.
(d) An inability to emphathize with the hurt partner.
2. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Healing after an affair.
(b) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(c) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(d) Understanding childhood experiences.
3. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
(a) Removing the lover from the picture.
(b) Rekindling romantic feelings.
(c) Holding a recommitment ceremony.
(d) Rebuilding the relationship.
4. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?
(a) Deciding whether to separate or stay together.
(b) Working to recommit on an intimate level.
(c) Moving the unfaithful partner out of the house.
(d) Telling the children about the affair.
5. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?
Short Answer Questions
1. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
2. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
3. The person involved in the relationship, but who is not one of the married partners, is termed which of the following?
4. If the unfaithful partner feels committed to the lover, how could this affect their feelings about the affair?
5. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
Short Essay Questions
1. What steps does the author take to minimize emotionally-charged labels associated with the affair?
2. What does the author recommend the couple do after deciding to rebuild their marriage?
3. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?
4. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?
5. Why do couples often feel they are incompatible?
6. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
7. What is the fundamental situation of any marriage post-affair which is addressed by Chapter 4?
8. How is the hurt partner's sense of self affected by the discovery of an affair?
9. How does the book address post-affair healing?
10. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?
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