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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
(a) Rebuilding the relationship.
(b) Holding a recommitment ceremony.
(c) Rekindling romantic feelings.
(d) Removing the lover from the picture.

2. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
(a) Deep friendship.
(b) Passionate lust.
(c) Romantic love.
(d) Uncontrollable desire.

3. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?
(a) Three.
(b) One.
(c) Two.
(d) Four.

4. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) Without reacting.
(b) With concentration.
(c) With love.
(d) Without judgment.

5. The feeling of romantic love can lead the unfaithful partner to take which action?
(a) Choose the lover over the hurt partner.
(b) Begin a new affair with another lover.
(c) Decide not to disclose the affair.
(d) Continue the affair after recommiting to the partner.

Short Answer Questions

1. The book urges readers to take an inventory of which aspect of their lives?

2. The euphoria felt from the affair can be attributed to which reality?

3. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?

4. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?

5. For trust to be regained in a relationship, what must happen?

Short Essay Questions

1. How does an unfaithful partner conduct an affair over a period of time, and what is their emotional reaction upon discovery?

2. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?

3. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?

4. Why is it necessary for an affair to be understood?

5. As discussed in Chapter 4, Is is possible to repair a marriage post-affair?

6. Why do family members find it difficult to support a hurt partner during their time of crisis after the discovery of an affair?

7. How must the affair be analyzed in order to move forward in building trust in the relationship?

8. When an affair is discovered, what is the effect on the hurt partner?

9. For whom is the book primarily written?

10. Who is the book's intended secondary audience?

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