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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. The unfaithful partner may experience physical changes from romantic love that can be expected to last how long?
(a) The rest of their life.
(b) When they're with their lover.
(c) Throughout the affair.
(d) A short time.
2. After an affair is discovered, how is the personal identity of hurt partner affected?
(a) It is lost.
(b) It is improved.
(c) It is recreated.
(d) It is stabilized.
3. How do children typically respond to the unfaithful partner?
(a) With anger.
(b) With compassion.
(c) With fear.
(d) With acceptance.
4. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?
(a) The sense of self of the unfaithful partner may have benefited.
(b) The personal identity of the hurt partner may be unaffected.
(c) The relgious beliefs of the unfaithful partner may be devastated.
(d) The sense of self-respect of the hurt partner may be strengthened.
5. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Unfulfilled dreams.
(b) Previous relationships.
Short Answer Questions
1. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
2. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
3. If the disenchantment felt in an aging relationship is mismanaged, it can lead to which result?
4. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?
5. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
Short Essay Questions
1. How is the presence of violent thoughts in the hurt partner related to the discovery of the affair?
2. Who must change in a relationship to build trust again?
3. If children do not feel safe and secure, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
4. How does the book view unrequited and romantic love in terms of their role in a relationship?
5. What are some assumptions a hurt partner could make about sexual intimacy?
6. As discussed in Chapter 4, Is is possible to repair a marriage post-affair?
7. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?
8. How can telling the truth about the affair help the hurt partner?
9. What action must the unfaithful partner take for intimate talk to be successful?
10. If children do not value themselves, what could happen during their marriage as adults?
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