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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(a) Unfulfilled dreams.
(c) Previous relationships.
2. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
(b) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.
(c) Disengage from the marriage even further.
(d) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
3. When working through an affair, the majority of the typical concerns are experienced by whom?
(a) The hurt partner.
(b) Both partners.
(c) The unfaithful partner.
(d) The lover.
4. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?
5. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
Short Answer Questions
1. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?
2. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
3. Who is the book's secondary audience?
4. After making a difficult decision between the hurt partner and the lover, the unfaithful partner may begin to doubt what about themselves?
5. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
Short Essay Questions
1. How must the affair be analyzed in order to move forward in building trust in the relationship?
2. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?
3. How is the hurt partner's sense of self affected by the discovery of an affair?
4. How is unrequited love described?
5. How is romantic love described?
6. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
7. How does the text address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 1?
8. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?
9. Where do unrealistic expectations of love and marriage come from?
10. Why do family members find it difficult to support a hurt partner during their time of crisis after the discovery of an affair?
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