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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Men distract themselves with external events when dealing with an unfaithful partner while women react in which way?
(a) Confront the lover.
(b) Plan a retreat to discuss the affair.
(c) Obsess over the relationship.
(d) Disengage from the marriage.
2. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
(a) They are ready.
(b) They withdraw.
(c) They are unsure.
(d) They need time.
3. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
4. Which idea is unlikely about the couple working through an extramarital affair?
(a) They are stronger.
(b) They are incompatible.
(c) They are dysfunctional.
(d) They are committed.
5. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?
(a) They are ignored.
(b) They are accepted.
(c) They are confronted.
(d) They are explained away.
Short Answer Questions
1. On what are relationships based?
2. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
3. The person involved in the relationship, but who is not one of the married partners, is termed which of the following?
4. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
5. The euphoria felt from the affair can be attributed to which reality?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?
2. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?
3. Why is it necessary for an affair to be understood?
4. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?
5. How is the presence of violent thoughts in the hurt partner related to the discovery of the affair?
6. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
7. Where do unrealistic expectations of love and marriage come from?
8. Who is the book's intended secondary audience?
9. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?
10. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?
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