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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?
(a) The personal identity of the hurt partner may be unaffected.
(b) The sense of self-respect of the hurt partner may be strengthened.
(c) The relgious beliefs of the unfaithful partner may be devastated.
(d) The sense of self of the unfaithful partner may have benefited.
2. Why does an affair need to be understood?
(a) The hurt partner may never forget.
(b) It could be the end of the relationship.
(c) The lover may not leave the relationship.
(d) It may affect the children too deeply.
3. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
(a) They are devastated by the affair.
(b) They lose their will to try in the relationship.
(c) They are angry at the lover.
(d) They lose their sense of self-respect.
4. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?
5. The author of the book can be described in which way?
(a) A woman with an advanced degree.
(b) A man with a religious background.
(c) A man with a medical degree.
(d) A woman with no formal training.
Short Answer Questions
1. The introduction addresses which of these questions?
2. When working through an affair, the majority of the typical concerns are experienced by whom?
3. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?
4. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?
5. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
Short Essay Questions
1. Who is the book's intended secondary audience?
2. Why does the author recommend using a mental time projection to envision where the relationship will be?
3. How does the book address post-affair healing?
4. How is the presence of violent thoughts in the hurt partner related to the discovery of the affair?
5. How does the book address gender-typical reactions in Chapter 2?
6. As discussed in Chapter 4, Is is possible to repair a marriage post-affair?
7. What does the author recommend the couple do after deciding to rebuild their marriage?
8. What methods do unfaithful partners use to hide from deeper emotional issues that may be tied to the affair?
9. Why do family members find it difficult to support a hurt partner during their time of crisis after the discovery of an affair?
10. How is unrequited love described?
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