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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
2. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
3. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
(a) To help the couple speak openly about their problems.
(b) To create a new language for the partners.
(c) To eliminate stereotypes about infidelity.
(d) To avoid emotionally charged labels.
4. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?
5. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
(a) Rebuilding the relationship.
(b) Rekindling romantic feelings.
(c) Holding a recommitment ceremony.
(d) Removing the lover from the picture.
Short Answer Questions
1. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
2. Why does an affair need to be understood?
3. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?
4. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
5. If the expectations of love and marriage are not modified, they can lead to which type of relationship?
Short Essay Questions
1. Why do couples often feel they are incompatible?
2. How is the hurt partner's sense of self affected by the discovery of an affair?
3. How is an affair characterized by the author in Chapter 3?
4. How is unrequited love described?
5. Why do hurt partners blame God for their suffering?
6. Why could an unfaithful partner feel a lack of guilt about the affair?
7. What is the fundamental difference in reactions between the hurt and unfaithful partners to the discovery of an affair?
8. What is the role of mature love in a relationship?
9. How does the book address post-affair healing?
10. How does an unfaithful partner conduct an affair over a period of time, and what is their emotional reaction upon discovery?
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