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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Destructive behaviors can be forgiven without which of the following?
2. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?
(a) It will decrease during the marriage.
(b) It would be more exciting with a lover.
(c) It could be regained in a relationship.
(d) It should come easily and naturally.
3. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?
(a) It can trigger childhood memories.
(b) It can damage their self-esteem.
(c) It can affect their personal identity.
(d) It can deepen the pain of the affair.
4. Why do unfaithful partners feel pressure to perform sex at a high satisfactory level with their partner?
(a) To prove the marriage is worth salvaging.
(b) To avoid the hurt partner fearing the affair is continuing.
(c) To compensate for the loss of the lover.
(d) To regain sexual intimacy with the hurt partner.
5. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?
(a) The passion can be reignited in a marriage.
(b) The damage done by an affair is deep.
(c) The affair can lead to a stronger marriage.
(d) The marriage usually ends in divorce.
6. Children who did not express themselves growing up were often treated in which way by their parents?
(a) Told to sit down.
(b) Told to be quiet.
(c) Told to behave.
(d) Told to go to their room.
7. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?
8. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
(a) Tentatively and earnestly.
(b) Passionately and fully.
(c) Openly and honestly.
(d) Freely and unconditionally.
9. How many essential childhood experiences are identified by the text?
10. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) The affair is continuing.
(b) Their marriage is over.
(c) A lack of sexual ability.
(d) A change in sexual desires.
11. An individual could mistakenly assume that listening gives their partner freedom to act with which emotion?
12. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?
13. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
(a) They should be eliminated.
(b) They should be ignored.
(c) They should be analyzed.
(d) They should be embraced.
14. A graph is provided for couples to chart behaviors that can be preformed in which timeframe?
15. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
Short Answer Questions
1. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?
2. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
3. If a hurt partner remains committed to impossibly high standards, they most likely missed out on which childhood experience?
4. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
5. Women desire what type of support in communication?
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