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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
2. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
(a) Be accepted by both partners.
(b) Be forgotten with the affair.
(c) Be justified the unfaithful partner.
(d) Be replaced by positive feelings.
3. Children who did not express themselves growing up were often treated in which way by their parents?
(a) Told to be quiet.
(b) Told to sit down.
(c) Told to behave.
(d) Told to go to their room.
4. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) The unfaithful partner.
(b) The hurt partner.
(c) Both partners.
(d) The lover.
5. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It could increase.
(b) It will not be eliminated.
(c) It may be avoided.
(d) It should dissipate.
6. Exploring and learning about the affair is achieved through which process?
(a) Intimate talk.
(b) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(c) Accepting the affair.
(d) Open communication.
7. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?
(a) Those experienced by the hurt partner.
(b) Those needed to heal a marriage.
(c) Those unique to each partner.
(d) Those integral to achieving full forgiveness.
8. Women desire what type of support in communication?
9. Listening to complaints does not equate to which behavior?
10. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
11. Post-affair testing for AIDS is described in which way?
(a) Necessary for both partners.
(b) Important for the lover.
(c) Optional for the unfaithful partner.
(d) Too emotional to be discussed.
12. For communication to occur in the marriage, what must happen with the lover?
(a) The unfaithful partner mus understand their attraction to the lover.
(b) The unfaithful partner must end the relationship with the lover.
(c) The hurt partner must accept the lover.
(d) The hurt partner must confront the lover.
13. Avoiding change results from which type of block experienced by the person?
14. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
15. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) A change in sexual desires.
(b) The affair is continuing.
(c) Their marriage is over.
(d) A lack of sexual ability.
Short Answer Questions
1. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
2. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?
3. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
4. How do most unfaithful partners describe sex with their lover?
5. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
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