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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. What could define the way a person listens?
(a) Emotional state.
(b) Role in the affair.
(c) Childhood experiences.
(d) Prior assumptions.
2. Why are many individuals prevented from forgiving?
(a) They have unrealistic expectations about forgiveness.
(b) They do not believe in forgiveness.
(c) They have wrong ideas about forgiveness.
(d) They feel they do not deserve forgiveness.
3. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?
(a) It will cause deeper wounds in the relationship.
(b) It will not be taken seriously by the hurt partner.
(c) It will bring additional pain into the marriage.
(d) It will send the unfaithful partner back to the lover.
4. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
(a) Critical life events.
(b) Unfair circumstances.
(c) Childhood experiences.
(d) Fear of losing a partner.
5. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It will not be eliminated.
(b) It could increase.
(c) It should dissipate.
(d) It may be avoided.
6. The author uses the term 'flip-flop' to describe which factor?
(a) Viewing the damage as irreversible.
(b) Understanding why hurt partners decide to cheat.
(c) Redefining negative traits as positive.
(d) Explaining the repeated return of the lover.
7. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) A change in sexual desires.
(b) The affair is continuing.
(c) Their marriage is over.
(d) A lack of sexual ability.
8. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?
(a) Seek out a partner who will commit equally.
(b) Become an unfaithful partner in their marriage.
(c) Refuse to enter a relationship.
(d) Avoid an affair at all cost.
9. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?
(a) With the same fantasies.
(b) With the same duration.
(c) With the same intensity.
(d) With the same frequency.
10. Children who did not express themselves growing up were often treated in which way by their parents?
(a) Told to behave.
(b) Told to sit down.
(c) Told to be quiet.
(d) Told to go to their room.
11. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?
(a) It will decrease during the marriage.
(b) It would be more exciting with a lover.
(c) It could be regained in a relationship.
(d) It should come easily and naturally.
12. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
13. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
(a) Openly and honestly.
(b) Freely and unconditionally.
(c) Passionately and fully.
(d) Tentatively and earnestly.
14. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
(a) As a reality.
(b) As a process.
(c) As a need.
(d) As an outcome.
15. If sex with the lover was good, the unfaithful partner will assume any problems during sex with the hurt partner is the fault of whom?
(a) The lover.
(b) Both partners.
(c) The unfaithful partner.
(d) The hurt partner.
Short Answer Questions
1. When trust has been destroyed, which emotion is logically prevalent?
2. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?
3. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
4. Chapter seven is divided into sections based on which two skills?
5. A list is provided in Chapter 8 to help people understand the common areas of shame associated with which of the following?
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