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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It may be avoided.
(b) It will not be eliminated.
(c) It should dissipate.
(d) It could increase.
2. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
(a) As a reality.
(b) As a process.
(c) As an outcome.
(d) As a need.
3. If sexual desires change, couples may assume this will lead to which outcome?
(a) Avoiding sex.
(b) Hurt feelings.
(c) Unrealistic expectations.
(d) Decrease in sexual intimacy.
4. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
(a) The hurt partner.
(b) The unfaithful partner.
(c) The lover.
(d) Both partners.
5. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
6. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
(a) Childhood experiences.
(b) Unfair circumstances.
(c) Fear of losing a partner.
(d) Critical life events.
7. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(b) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(c) Overcoming resistance to change.
(d) Methods to change behavior.
8. The genuine intention of an individual may be lost if the partner feels the behavior is only occurring for which reason?
(a) Because their marriage was damaged.
(b) Because they did not want to hurt the children.
(c) Because they were asked to change.
(d) Because the affair was ended.
9. How do most unfaithful partners describe sex with their lover?
(a) Awkward or unsatisfying.
(b) Routine or bland.
(c) Dangerous or bold.
(d) Fulfilling or passionate.
10. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?
11. What could define the way a person listens?
(a) Emotional state.
(b) Prior assumptions.
(c) Role in the affair.
(d) Childhood experiences.
12. Developing realistic expectations of sex involves examining assumptions regarding which emotion?
13. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?
(a) The lover.
(b) Both partners.
(c) The hurt partner.
(d) The unfaithful partner.
14. Chapter 9 concludes with a document that is meant to help a couple in which way?
(a) A physical agreement to forgive and forget the affair.
(b) A physical agreement to disclose all details about the lover.
(c) A physical agreement to record details of each conversation.
(d) A physical agreement to move forward in rebuilding the relationship.
15. Forgiveness involves mental development and occurs in which timeframe?
(a) When the affair ends.
(d) As time goes on.
Short Answer Questions
1. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
2. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
3. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
4. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
5. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
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