After the Affair Test | Final Test - Easy

Janis Abrahms Spring
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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If sex with the lover was good, the unfaithful partner will assume any problems during sex with the hurt partner is the fault of whom?
(a) Both partners.
(b) The hurt partner.
(c) The lover.
(d) The unfaithful partner.

2. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
(a) Cutting off all communication to the lover.
(b) Addressing the root causes of the affair.
(c) Changing personal behavior to display trustworthiness.
(d) Recommitting fully to the relationship.

3. If the unfaithful partner is not interested in sex, the hurt partner may assume which possibility?
(a) A lack of sexual ability.
(b) A change in sexual desires.
(c) The affair is continuing.
(d) Their marriage is over.

4. Which is an example of a behavior that may take a considerable toll on a partner?
(a) Allowing an inspection of credit card statements.
(b) Writing down detailed travel itineraries.
(c) Making daily telephone calls.
(d) Returning from work in a timely manner.

5. Children who did not express themselves growing up were often treated in which way by their parents?
(a) Told to behave.
(b) Told to go to their room.
(c) Told to be quiet.
(d) Told to sit down.

6. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
(a) Cheat.
(b) Betrayal.
(c) Deception.
(d) Adultery.

7. Women desire what type of support in communication?
(a) Mental.
(b) Emotional.
(c) Relational.
(d) Physical.

8. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
(a) Uncomfortable.
(b) Integral.
(c) Necessary.
(d) Unavoidable.

9. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
(a) Illusion.
(b) Deficiency.
(c) Schema.
(d) Void.

10. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
(a) Effectiveness.
(b) Ease.
(c) Productivity.
(d) Cost.

11. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?
(a) Difficult to achieve.
(b) Not always good for them.
(c) Necessary for emotional healing.
(d) Important for mental stability.

12. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?
(a) Cherished.
(b) Wanted.
(c) Loved.
(d) Secure.

13. How is masturbation viewed by the text?
(a) Indicative of marital stress.
(b) An individual preference.
(c) A normal behavior.
(d) A sign of dissatisfaction.

14. Intimate listening can be described as which skill?
(a) Hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.
(b) Accepting what your partner is explaining.
(c) Agreeing with what your partner is saying.
(d) Understanding what your partner is experiencing.

15. Why do unfaithful partners feel pressure to perform sex at a high satisfactory level with their partner?
(a) To regain sexual intimacy with the hurt partner.
(b) To avoid the hurt partner fearing the affair is continuing.
(c) To compensate for the loss of the lover.
(d) To prove the marriage is worth salvaging.

Short Answer Questions

1. Partners may feel that it is unacceptable to take which action?

2. Some people refuse to acknowledge which action by their partner?

3. For whom must forgiveness occur?

4. The genuine intention of an individual may be lost if the partner feels the behavior is only occurring for which reason?

5. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?

(see the answer keys)

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