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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?
(a) It will not be taken seriously by the hurt partner.
(b) It will cause deeper wounds in the relationship.
(c) It will send the unfaithful partner back to the lover.
(d) It will bring additional pain into the marriage.
2. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
(a) They should be embraced.
(b) They should be analyzed.
(c) They should be ignored.
(d) They should be eliminated.
3. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
4. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) Methods to change behavior.
(b) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(c) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(d) Overcoming resistance to change.
5. Children need to function in which way?
(a) With supervision.
(d) Without boundaries.
6. Forgiveness should not be offered in which way?
(a) Tentatively and earnestly.
(b) Openly and honestly.
(c) Passionately and fully.
(d) Freely and unconditionally.
7. For communication to occur in the marriage, what must happen with the lover?
(a) The unfaithful partner mus understand their attraction to the lover.
(b) The hurt partner must confront the lover.
(c) The unfaithful partner must end the relationship with the lover.
(d) The hurt partner must accept the lover.
8. A hurt partner may avoid demanding change if they feel it will lead to which situation?
9. A graph is provided for couples to chart behaviors that can be preformed in which timeframe?
10. Future affairs will not be likely to occur if which action is taken?
(a) The reasons for the affair are discussed with the lover.
(b) The unfaithful partner changes careers.
(c) The hurt partner works to regain self-esteem.
(d) The underlying causes are examined and corrected.
11. Destructive behaviors can be forgiven without which of the following?
12. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
(a) Be justified the unfaithful partner.
(b) Be forgotten with the affair.
(c) Be accepted by both partners.
(d) Be replaced by positive feelings.
13. If sexual desires change, couples may assume this will lead to which outcome?
(a) Decrease in sexual intimacy.
(b) Hurt feelings.
(c) Unrealistic expectations.
(d) Avoiding sex.
14. Developing realistic expectations of sex involves examining assumptions regarding which emotion?
15. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
Short Answer Questions
1. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?
2. The responsibility for the shortcomings in a marriage belongs to whom?
3. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
4. The author uses the term 'flip-flop' to describe which factor?
5. When does the hurt partner mistakenly believe that the unfaithful partner must accomplish their personal change?
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