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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. If sexual desires change, couples may assume this will lead to which outcome?
(a) Unrealistic expectations.
(b) Decrease in sexual intimacy.
(c) Avoiding sex.
(d) Hurt feelings.
2. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
(a) Be replaced by positive feelings.
(b) Be accepted by both partners.
(c) Be forgotten with the affair.
(d) Be justified the unfaithful partner.
3. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?
(a) Important for mental stability.
(b) Necessary for emotional healing.
(c) Not always good for them.
(d) Difficult to achieve.
4. Partners may feel that it is unacceptable to take which action?
(a) Force their partner to change.
(b) Demand the lover is banished.
(c) Ask directly for love.
(d) Discuss the affair openly.
5. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
(a) As a process.
(b) As a need.
(c) As a reality.
(d) As an outcome.
6. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?
(a) Those integral to achieving full forgiveness.
(b) Those experienced by the hurt partner.
(c) Those needed to heal a marriage.
(d) Those unique to each partner.
7. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?
8. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?
(a) Seek out a partner who will commit equally.
(b) Become an unfaithful partner in their marriage.
(c) Refuse to enter a relationship.
(d) Avoid an affair at all cost.
9. How does the book view sex tools?
(a) Healthy if acceptable to both partners.
(b) Integral to maintaining the excitement in intimacy.
(c) Unnecessary if the marriage is working.
(d) Dangerous if used only with the lover.
10. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
11. Which is an example of a behavior that may take a considerable toll on a partner?
(a) Writing down detailed travel itineraries.
(b) Making daily telephone calls.
(c) Returning from work in a timely manner.
(d) Allowing an inspection of credit card statements.
12. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?
(a) It could be regained in a relationship.
(b) It should come easily and naturally.
(c) It will decrease during the marriage.
(d) It would be more exciting with a lover.
13. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?
(a) It can trigger childhood memories.
(b) It can affect their personal identity.
(c) It can deepen the pain of the affair.
(d) It can damage their self-esteem.
14. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
15. Intimate listening can be described as which skill?
(a) Understanding what your partner is experiencing.
(b) Hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.
(c) Accepting what your partner is explaining.
(d) Agreeing with what your partner is saying.
Short Answer Questions
1. Avoiding change results from which type of block experienced by the person?
2. Post-affair testing for AIDS is described in which way?
3. Exploring and learning about the affair is achieved through which process?
4. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
5. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?
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