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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
2. Why are many individuals prevented from forgiving?
(a) They feel they do not deserve forgiveness.
(b) They have wrong ideas about forgiveness.
(c) They have unrealistic expectations about forgiveness.
(d) They do not believe in forgiveness.
3. Which is an example of a behavior that may take a considerable toll on a partner?
(a) Returning from work in a timely manner.
(b) Allowing an inspection of credit card statements.
(c) Writing down detailed travel itineraries.
(d) Making daily telephone calls.
4. Why do some partners mistakenly believe that verbal abuse must be accepted?
(a) It is deserved by the unfaithful partner.
(b) It is how their parents treated them.
(c) It is part of their personality.
(d) It is justified after the affair.
5. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
(a) A better understanding of relationship problems.
(b) A partner having an affair.
(c) A comparison to the happiness of their parents.
(d) A deep-rooted fear of losing a child.
6. How many essential childhood experiences are identified by the text?
7. If sex with the lover was good, the unfaithful partner will assume any problems during sex with the hurt partner is the fault of whom?
(a) The lover.
(b) The unfaithful partner.
(c) The hurt partner.
(d) Both partners.
8. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
(a) Their frustration.
(b) Their hurt.
(c) Their demands.
(d) Their needs.
9. Avoiding change results from which type of block experienced by the person?
10. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?
11. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?
(a) The affair can lead to a stronger marriage.
(b) The passion can be reignited in a marriage.
(c) The marriage usually ends in divorce.
(d) The damage done by an affair is deep.
12. Intimate listening can be described as which skill?
(a) Understanding what your partner is experiencing.
(b) Accepting what your partner is explaining.
(c) Agreeing with what your partner is saying.
(d) Hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.
13. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It could increase.
(b) It will not be eliminated.
(c) It may be avoided.
(d) It should dissipate.
14. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?
(a) Difficult to achieve.
(b) Important for mental stability.
(c) Necessary for emotional healing.
(d) Not always good for them.
15. How should children connect with others?
Short Answer Questions
1. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
2. How is masturbation viewed by the text?
3. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
4. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
5. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
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