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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. An accident or illness are examples of which root cause of an affair?
(a) Fear of losing a partner.
(b) Childhood experiences.
(c) Critical life events.
(d) Unfair circumstances.
2. Listening to complaints does not equate to which behavior?
3. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
(a) Cutting off all communication to the lover.
(b) Addressing the root causes of the affair.
(c) Changing personal behavior to display trustworthiness.
(d) Recommitting fully to the relationship.
4. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
(a) As a need.
(b) As an outcome.
(c) As a reality.
(d) As a process.
5. Women desire what type of support in communication?
6. Why are many individuals prevented from forgiving?
(a) They have wrong ideas about forgiveness.
(b) They do not believe in forgiveness.
(c) They have unrealistic expectations about forgiveness.
(d) They feel they do not deserve forgiveness.
7. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?
(a) Those integral to achieving full forgiveness.
(b) Those experienced by the hurt partner.
(c) Those needed to heal a marriage.
(d) Those unique to each partner.
8. How should children connect with others?
9. How many blocks to change does the text address in chapter six?
10. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?
11. Intimate listening can be described as which skill?
(a) Agreeing with what your partner is saying.
(b) Accepting what your partner is explaining.
(c) Understanding what your partner is experiencing.
(d) Hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.
12. How do most unfaithful partners describe sex with their lover?
(a) Routine or bland.
(b) Awkward or unsatisfying.
(c) Fulfilling or passionate.
(d) Dangerous or bold.
13. What is the root cause of the majority of marital dysfunction?
(a) Failure to communicate.
(b) Incompatable personalities.
(c) Financial disagreements.
(d) Extramarital affairs.
14. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?
(a) The hurt partner.
(b) The lover.
(c) The unfaithful partner.
(d) Both partners.
15. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?
(a) It should come easily and naturally.
(b) It could be regained in a relationship.
(c) It would be more exciting with a lover.
(d) It will decrease during the marriage.
Short Answer Questions
1. Developing realistic expectations of sex involves examining assumptions regarding which emotion?
2. Couples often assume that sexual desire should be experienced in which way by each partner?
3. What could define the way a person listens?
4. Why do unfaithful partners feel pressure to perform sex at a high satisfactory level with their partner?
5. A hurt partner may avoid demanding change if they feel it will lead to which situation?
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