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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Forgiveness can be described in which way?
(a) As an outcome.
(b) As a process.
(c) As a reality.
(d) As a need.
2. Developing realistic expectations of sex involves examining assumptions regarding which emotion?
3. While attempting to empathize with their female partners, men often feel which emotion?
4. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?
(a) It may be avoided.
(b) It could increase.
(c) It should dissipate.
(d) It will not be eliminated.
5. How do most unfaithful partners describe sex with their lover?
(a) Fulfilling or passionate.
(b) Routine or bland.
(c) Awkward or unsatisfying.
(d) Dangerous or bold.
6. A graph is provided for couples to chart behaviors that can be preformed in which timeframe?
7. If a hurt partner remains committed to impossibly high standards, they most likely missed out on which childhood experience?
(a) Spending time with their parents.
(b) Bonding with their friends.
(c) Exploring new relationships.
(d) Letting go and having fun.
8. According to scientific studies and contrary to conventional beliefs, how is forgiveness viewed for the individual?
(a) Not always good for them.
(b) Difficult to achieve.
(c) Necessary for emotional healing.
(d) Important for mental stability.
9. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?
(a) It will send the unfaithful partner back to the lover.
(b) It will not be taken seriously by the hurt partner.
(c) It will bring additional pain into the marriage.
(d) It will cause deeper wounds in the relationship.
10. Analyzing childhood experiences can lead to which result in a marriage?
(a) A better understanding of relationship problems.
(b) A comparison to the happiness of their parents.
(c) A deep-rooted fear of losing a child.
(d) A partner having an affair.
11. Which is an assumption about sexual intimacy by many couples?
(a) It should come easily and naturally.
(b) It could be regained in a relationship.
(c) It would be more exciting with a lover.
(d) It will decrease during the marriage.
12. If sexual desires change, couples may assume this will lead to which outcome?
(a) Avoiding sex.
(b) Hurt feelings.
(c) Unrealistic expectations.
(d) Decrease in sexual intimacy.
13. The process of talking could be different for each partner based on which reality?
14. Why do some individuals refuse to change?
(a) They are lonely.
(b) They are depressed.
(c) They are sad.
(d) They are angry.
15. How does the book view sex tools?
(a) Healthy if acceptable to both partners.
(b) Integral to maintaining the excitement in intimacy.
(c) Dangerous if used only with the lover.
(d) Unnecessary if the marriage is working.
Short Answer Questions
1. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
2. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
3. A bulleted list is provided in Chapter 9 describing which aspects of forgiveness?
4. Women desire what type of support in communication?
5. How should children connect with others?
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