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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
2. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Critique each others' beliefs.
(b) Undergo couples counseling.
(c) Examine their origins.
(d) Decide mutually to forget them.
3. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?
(a) They invent new ways to lie.
(b) They enjoy the thrill of lying.
(c) They grow tired of lying.
(d) They teach their children how to lie.
4. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?
5. Men distract themselves with external events when dealing with an unfaithful partner while women react in which way?
(a) Obsess over the relationship.
(b) Disengage from the marriage.
(c) Plan a retreat to discuss the affair.
(d) Confront the lover.
6. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?
(a) Suicidal thoughts.
(b) Withdrawing sexually.
(c) Wanting a divorce.
(d) Taking the children.
7. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?
(a) The behaviors are attempts to dull pain and reduce anxiety.
(b) The behaviors are attempts to get the attention of the unfaithful partner.
(c) The behaviors are attempts to remember life before the relationship.
(d) The behaviors are attempts to get even with the lover.
8. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?
(a) A lack of communication about their whereabouts.
(b) An inability to emphathize with the hurt partner.
(c) A pattern of staying late after work.
(d) A tendency to distance themselves from the children.
9. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?
(a) They are accepted.
(b) They are ignored.
(c) They are explained away.
(d) They are confronted.
10. After considering the economic impacts of divorce, a couple may come to understand which reality about their relationship?
(a) The reasoning behind their financial arguments.
(b) The rationale for remaining in the relationship.
(c) The financial burden of the affair.
(d) The need to provide for their children.
11. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
(a) Deep friendship.
(b) Romantic love.
(c) Uncontrollable desire.
(d) Passionate lust.
12. According to Chapter 3, how should irrational or erroneous thoughts should be treated?
13. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
14. The introduction addresses which of these questions?
(a) When was the book written?
(b) When was the book written?
(c) How long did it take to write the book?
(d) Who is the book written for?
15. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
Short Answer Questions
1. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?
2. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
3. What is one of the main purposes of the introduction?
4. Women typically view an affair in which way compared with men?
5. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
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