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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
2. All extramarital affairs are viewed in which way by the text?
3. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?
(a) Their identity is defined by their partner and children.
(b) Their identity and self-worth are tied to their sexuality.
(c) Their identity is regulated solely by their own beliefs.
(d) Their identity is invested in their intimate relationship.
4. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?
(a) A pattern of staying late after work.
(b) An inability to emphathize with the hurt partner.
(c) A tendency to distance themselves from the children.
(d) A lack of communication about their whereabouts.
5. The intense attachment a hurt partner may feel towards the unfaithful partner could override which of the following?
6. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
(a) They may disengage from the marriage.
(b) They may leave the hurt partner.
(c) They may not abandon their lover.
(d) They may have another affair.
7. Using mental time projection will help the partners accomplish which task?
(a) Rekindle their sexual intimacy.
(b) Focus on the rebuilding process.
(c) Forgive the unfaithful partner.
(d) Let go of past infidelities.
8. Why does an affair need to be understood?
(a) It could be the end of the relationship.
(b) The hurt partner may never forget.
(c) It may affect the children too deeply.
(d) The lover may not leave the relationship.
9. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
(a) They are unsure.
(b) They are ready.
(c) They withdraw.
(d) They need time.
10. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?
(a) Loss of connection with others.
(b) Loss of religious faith.
(c) Loss of control over mind and body.
(d) Loss of personal identity.
11. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
12. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
(a) Uncontrollable desire.
(b) Romantic love.
(c) Passionate lust.
(d) Deep friendship.
13. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
(a) They need time to sort out.
(b) They should be ignored.
(c) They can be resolved.
(d) They must be addressed.
14. What is the main purpose of the book?
(a) To help a couple survive an affair.
(b) To guide a couple through a divorce.
(c) To advise a couple on how to regain sexual intimacy.
(d) To instruct a couple on how to stay married.
15. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
Short Answer Questions
1. The most fundamental situation faced by the partners in a marriage post-affair is which of the following?
2. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
3. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
4. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
5. While hurt female partners typically become depressed, how do male hurt partners typically react?
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