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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
2. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
(a) They are ready.
(b) They need time.
(c) They are unsure.
(d) They withdraw.
3. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(b) Understanding childhood experiences.
(c) Healing after an affair.
(d) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
4. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?
5. The intense attachment a hurt partner may feel towards the unfaithful partner could override which of the following?
6. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They lose the sense of being special.
(b) They cannot accurately express their emotions.
(c) They compare themselves to the lover.
(d) They regret the time lost with their partner.
7. The book urges readers to take an inventory of which aspect of their lives?
(a) Personal desires and beliefs.
(b) Promises made during wedding vows.
(c) Conservations had about faithfulness.
(d) Dreams and goals for the future.
8. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?
(a) They reject the sacredness of marriage.
(b) They find solace in church.
(c) They convert to a different religion.
(d) They blame God for their suffering.
9. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Disengage from the marriage even further.
(b) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.
(c) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(d) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
10. One partner may assume that the relationship is in which state?
(a) Unrecognizable from its origins.
(b) Deeply flawed and dysfunctional.
(c) Stale and unable to move forward.
(d) Damaged beyond repair.
11. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?
12. Basic goals and new boundaries should be decided on by whom?
(a) The partners and the lover.
(b) The hurt partner and the marriage counselor.
(c) The unfaithful partner and a religious leader.
(d) Both partners.
13. When deciding on the future of their relationship, a couple should consider which effect on the children?
14. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
15. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
(a) Making an appointment to see a marriage counselor.
(b) Discussing the secret nature of the affair.
(c) Managing emotions until feelings can normalize.
(d) Discovering the identity of the lover.
Short Answer Questions
1. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
2. The person involved in the relationship, but who is not one of the married partners, is termed which of the following?
3. If the expectations of love and marriage are not modified, they can lead to which type of relationship?
4. What is the main purpose of the book?
5. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
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