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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
(a) They withdraw.
(b) They need time.
(c) They are ready.
(d) They are unsure.
2. Who is the book's secondary audience?
(a) A child wanting to understand their parent's affair.
(b) A pastor counseling a couple prior to their wedding.
(c) A therapist advising a patient on sexual expectations in a marriage.
(d) A lover wanting to push their partner towards a marriage proposal.
3. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
(a) They lose their sense of self-respect.
(b) They are angry at the lover.
(c) They lose their will to try in the relationship.
(d) They are devastated by the affair.
4. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Disengage from the marriage even further.
(b) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(c) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.
(d) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
5. The overall length of the introduction can be described with which term?
(a) Varies by edition.
6. When deciding on the future of their relationship, a couple should consider which effect on the children?
7. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
(a) They may leave the hurt partner.
(b) They may disengage from the marriage.
(c) They may have another affair.
(d) They may not abandon their lover.
8. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
(a) With desire to keep their family together at all costs.
(b) With willingness to work at the relationship.
(c) With acceptance and forgiveness for the affair.
(d) With acknowledgement of the level of damage from the affair.
9. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
10. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
11. One partner may assume that the relationship is in which state?
(a) Damaged beyond repair.
(b) Deeply flawed and dysfunctional.
(c) Stale and unable to move forward.
(d) Unrecognizable from its origins.
12. Which idea is unlikely about the couple working through an extramarital affair?
(a) They are committed.
(b) They are stronger.
(c) They are incompatible.
(d) They are dysfunctional.
13. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) Without judgment.
(b) Without reacting.
(c) With concentration.
(d) With love.
14. On what are relationships based?
(a) Common goals and desires.
(b) Trust and love.
(c) Respect and friendship.
(d) Family and commitment.
15. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?
(a) Loss of control over mind and body.
(b) Loss of religious faith.
(c) Loss of personal identity.
(d) Loss of connection with others.
Short Answer Questions
1. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?
2. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
3. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?
4. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
5. Men distract themselves with external events when dealing with an unfaithful partner while women react in which way?
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