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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?
2. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After deciding to divorce.
(b) After recommitting to the relationship.
(c) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(d) After learning about the affair.
3. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?
4. If a partner exhibits signs of change, how could the other partner view this change?
(a) As insincere and untrue.
(b) As temporary and only for show.
(c) As heartfelt and lasting.
(d) As deserved and needed.
5. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
6. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?
(a) They grow tired of lying.
(b) They invent new ways to lie.
(c) They teach their children how to lie.
(d) They enjoy the thrill of lying.
7. What is one of the main purposes of the introduction?
(a) To create interest in the text.
(b) To advise the reader in their relationship.
(c) To explain how affairs begin.
(d) To establish themes of the book.
8. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
9. Although many hurt partners feel that 'good things happen to good people,' how does the discovery of the affair affect this sentiment?
(a) They become aware their partner is not a good person.
(b) They must abandon their common, fundamental beliefs.
(c) They hold tightly to the idea that good things will come their way.
(d) They believe they did something wrong to bring on the affair.
10. If the expectations of love and marriage are not modified, they can lead to which type of relationship?
11. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?
(a) Taking the children.
(b) Wanting a divorce.
(c) Withdrawing sexually.
(d) Suicidal thoughts.
12. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
13. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
(a) With acknowledgement of the level of damage from the affair.
(b) With acceptance and forgiveness for the affair.
(c) With willingness to work at the relationship.
(d) With desire to keep their family together at all costs.
14. Connecting with friends and family in the wake of an affair is perceived how by the hurt partner?
(a) Difficult and painful.
(b) Easy and necessary.
(c) Tenuous and slow.
(d) Instant and deep.
15. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
Short Answer Questions
1. If a couple does not adequately communicate their desires and needs, they may begin to view each other in which way?
2. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
3. The intense attachment a hurt partner may feel towards the unfaithful partner could override which of the following?
4. The most fundamental situation faced by the partners in a marriage post-affair is which of the following?
5. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?
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