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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
2. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
(b) Unfulfilled dreams.
(c) Previous relationships.
3. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
(a) Discussing the secret nature of the affair.
(b) Discovering the identity of the lover.
(c) Making an appointment to see a marriage counselor.
(d) Managing emotions until feelings can normalize.
4. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
(a) They can be resolved.
(b) They should be ignored.
(c) They must be addressed.
(d) They need time to sort out.
5. The feeling of romantic love can lead the unfaithful partner to take which action?
(a) Begin a new affair with another lover.
(b) Continue the affair after recommiting to the partner.
(c) Choose the lover over the hurt partner.
(d) Decide not to disclose the affair.
6. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?
7. If a couple does not adequately communicate their desires and needs, they may begin to view each other in which way?
8. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?
(a) A tendency to distance themselves from the children.
(b) An inability to emphathize with the hurt partner.
(c) A pattern of staying late after work.
(d) A lack of communication about their whereabouts.
9. The overall length of the introduction can be described with which term?
(a) Varies by edition.
10. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
11. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
12. Using mental time projection will help the partners accomplish which task?
(a) Forgive the unfaithful partner.
(b) Rekindle their sexual intimacy.
(c) Focus on the rebuilding process.
(d) Let go of past infidelities.
13. Why does an affair need to be understood?
(a) The lover may not leave the relationship.
(b) It could be the end of the relationship.
(c) It may affect the children too deeply.
(d) The hurt partner may never forget.
14. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?
15. The author of the book can be described in which way?
(a) A woman with no formal training.
(b) A woman with an advanced degree.
(c) A man with a medical degree.
(d) A man with a religious background.
Short Answer Questions
1. The euphoria felt from the affair can be attributed to which reality?
2. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?
3. For trust to be regained in a relationship, what must happen?
4. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?
5. An unfaithful partner may experience which emotion after leaving the lover?
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