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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. If the unfaithful partner feels committed to the lover, how could this affect their feelings about the affair?
(a) They may not feel guilty.
(b) They may not want to reconnect.
(c) They may feel distracted.
(d) They may be angry.
2. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
(b) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(c) Disengage from the marriage even further.
(d) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.
3. If a partner exhibits signs of change, how could the other partner view this change?
(a) As insincere and untrue.
(b) As heartfelt and lasting.
(c) As deserved and needed.
(d) As temporary and only for show.
4. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After recommitting to the relationship.
(b) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(c) After deciding to divorce.
(d) After learning about the affair.
5. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?
6. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?
(a) A lack of communication about their whereabouts.
(b) A tendency to distance themselves from the children.
(c) A pattern of staying late after work.
(d) An inability to emphathize with the hurt partner.
7. The most fundamental situation faced by the partners in a marriage post-affair is which of the following?
(a) How to trust again.
(b) How to recommit to the marriage.
(c) How to forgive and forget.
(d) How to regain sexual intimacy.
8. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?
9. On what are relationships based?
(a) Respect and friendship.
(b) Trust and love.
(c) Family and commitment.
(d) Common goals and desires.
10. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
11. Women typically view an affair in which way compared with men?
(a) Sad and lonely.
(b) Healthy and necessary.
(c) Complicating and difficult.
(d) Fun and distracting.
12. The stage of disenchantment in a relationship can be described with which term?
13. After an affair, the marital relationship faces which two options?
(a) Discussion or counseling.
(b) Dissolution or recommitment.
(c) Termination or ignorance.
(d) Renogotiation or openness.
14. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?
(a) Holding a recommitment ceremony.
(b) Removing the lover from the picture.
(c) Rebuilding the relationship.
(d) Rekindling romantic feelings.
15. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
Short Answer Questions
1. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
2. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?
3. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
4. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?
5. The intense attachment a hurt partner may feel towards the unfaithful partner could override which of the following?
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