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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. How many psychological effects on the hurt partner, which occur after the discovery of an affair, does the book address?
2. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Undergo couples counseling.
(b) Examine their origins.
(c) Decide mutually to forget them.
(d) Critique each others' beliefs.
3. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?
4. After considering the economic impacts of divorce, a couple may come to understand which reality about their relationship?
(a) The need to provide for their children.
(b) The financial burden of the affair.
(c) The reasoning behind their financial arguments.
(d) The rationale for remaining in the relationship.
5. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?
(a) They enjoy the thrill of lying.
(b) They grow tired of lying.
(c) They invent new ways to lie.
(d) They teach their children how to lie.
6. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?
7. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?
(a) They lose their sense of self-respect.
(b) They lose their will to try in the relationship.
(c) They are devastated by the affair.
(d) They are angry at the lover.
8. When deciding on the future of their relationship, a couple should consider which effect on the children?
9. As relationships grow, they move into a stage of which type of love?
10. When the relationship with the lover is ended by the unfaithful partner, which emotion typically follows?
11. On what are relationships based?
(a) Family and commitment.
(b) Respect and friendship.
(c) Trust and love.
(d) Common goals and desires.
12. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) With love.
(b) Without reacting.
(c) With concentration.
(d) Without judgment.
13. All extramarital affairs are viewed in which way by the text?
14. The book urges readers to take an inventory of which aspect of their lives?
(a) Dreams and goals for the future.
(b) Personal desires and beliefs.
(c) Conservations had about faithfulness.
(d) Promises made during wedding vows.
15. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To make a public relationship with the lover.
(b) To remain committed to the marriage.
(c) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
(d) To avoid affairs in the future.
Short Answer Questions
1. Using mental time projection will help the partners accomplish which task?
2. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?
3. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?
4. Connecting with friends and family in the wake of an affair is perceived how by the hurt partner?
5. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
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