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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. Women typically view an affair in which way compared with men?
(a) Complicating and difficult.
(b) Sad and lonely.
(c) Fun and distracting.
(d) Healthy and necessary.
2. One partner may assume that the relationship is in which state?
(a) Stale and unable to move forward.
(b) Unrecognizable from its origins.
(c) Deeply flawed and dysfunctional.
(d) Damaged beyond repair.
3. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Healing after an affair.
(b) Understanding childhood experiences.
(c) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(d) Accepting the lover as an equal.
4. Basic goals and new boundaries should be decided on by whom?
(a) The unfaithful partner and a religious leader.
(b) Both partners.
(c) The hurt partner and the marriage counselor.
(d) The partners and the lover.
5. All extramarital affairs are viewed in which way by the text?
6. The basic premise of the book assumes the readers have made which decision about their relationship?
(a) To analyze the benefits of staying in the relationship.
(b) To make a public relationship with the lover.
(c) To remain committed to the marriage.
(d) To avoid affairs in the future.
7. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
8. The feeling of romantic love can lead the unfaithful partner to take which action?
(a) Choose the lover over the hurt partner.
(b) Decide not to disclose the affair.
(c) Continue the affair after recommiting to the partner.
(d) Begin a new affair with another lover.
9. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?
10. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(b) After recommitting to the relationship.
(c) After deciding to divorce.
(d) After learning about the affair.
11. Warning signs that the unfaithful partner is likely to pursue future affairs include which behavior?
(a) An inability to emphathize with the hurt partner.
(b) A tendency to distance themselves from the children.
(c) A lack of communication about their whereabouts.
(d) A pattern of staying late after work.
12. The unfaithful partner may experience physical changes from romantic love that can be expected to last how long?
(a) The rest of their life.
(b) When they're with their lover.
(c) A short time.
(d) Throughout the affair.
13. What must occur with the deeper issues felt by the unfaithful partner?
(a) They need time to sort out.
(b) They must be addressed.
(c) They should be ignored.
(d) They can be resolved.
14. When working through an affair, the majority of the typical concerns are experienced by whom?
(a) The hurt partner.
(b) The unfaithful partner.
(c) Both partners.
(d) The lover.
15. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
(a) They may leave the hurt partner.
(b) They may have another affair.
(c) They may not abandon their lover.
(d) They may disengage from the marriage.
Short Answer Questions
1. Unrealistic expectations are often the result of which experiences?
2. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
3. On what are relationships based?
4. How does chapter number 1 conclude?
5. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
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