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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. What is the main purpose of the book?
(a) To instruct a couple on how to stay married.
(b) To guide a couple through a divorce.
(c) To advise a couple on how to regain sexual intimacy.
(d) To help a couple survive an affair.

2. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?
(a) Unfaithful.
(b) Victim.
(c) Lover.
(d) Betrayed.

3. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?
(a) The sense of self of the unfaithful partner may have benefited.
(b) The relgious beliefs of the unfaithful partner may be devastated.
(c) The personal identity of the hurt partner may be unaffected.
(d) The sense of self-respect of the hurt partner may be strengthened.

4. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
(a) They may have another affair.
(b) They may disengage from the marriage.
(c) They may not abandon their lover.
(d) They may leave the hurt partner.

5. How is the religious faith of hurt partners affected after an affair?
(a) They blame God for their suffering.
(b) They reject the sacredness of marriage.
(c) They find solace in church.
(d) They convert to a different religion.

Short Answer Questions

1. How does the unfaithful partner feel about moving forward in marriage relationship?

2. Future affairs will not be likely to occur if which action is taken?

3. In addition to feeling safe, children also need to feel which emotion?

4. Connecting with friends and family in the wake of an affair is perceived how by the hurt partner?

5. If a hurt partner remains committed to impossibly high standards, they most likely missed out on which childhood experience?

(see the answer key)

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