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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Chapter seven is divided into sections based on which two skills?
(a) Talking and listening.
(b) Communicating and understanding.
(c) Acknowledging and accepting.
(d) Forgiving and forgetting.

2. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After learning about the affair.
(b) After deciding to divorce.
(c) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(d) After recommitting to the relationship.

3. What does the first part of chapter six focus on?
(a) Methods to change behavior.
(b) Reasons why a partner is untrustworthy.
(c) How to control the unfaithful partner.
(d) Overcoming resistance to change.

4. Exploring and learning about the affair is achieved through which process?
(a) Intimate talk.
(b) Accepting the affair.
(c) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(d) Open communication.

5. Why does an affair need to be understood?
(a) It could be the end of the relationship.
(b) The hurt partner may never forget.
(c) It may affect the children too deeply.
(d) The lover may not leave the relationship.

Short Answer Questions

1. How many stages is post-affair healing divided into?

2. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?

3. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?

4. Who is the book's primary audience?

5. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?

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