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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.
Multiple Choice Questions
1. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?
(a) Telling the children about the affair.
(b) Moving the unfaithful partner out of the house.
(c) Working to recommit on an intimate level.
(d) Deciding whether to separate or stay together.
2. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?
(a) They may disengage from the marriage.
(b) They may not abandon their lover.
(c) They may leave the hurt partner.
(d) They may have another affair.
3. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
4. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?
(a) After working on the relationship for a period of time.
(b) After recommitting to the relationship.
(c) After deciding to divorce.
(d) After learning about the affair.
5. How do unfaithful partners typically manage their anxiety?
(a) Arrange to see their lover more frequently.
(b) Become involved in a wide range of activities.
(c) Disengage from the marriage even further.
(d) Attempt to understand the feelings of the hurt partner.
Short Answer Questions
1. Most relationships begin with which emotion?
2. How does the book describe the process of changing behavior?
3. Which term is used to describe the refusal of one partner to discuss the affair?
4. If a hurt partner remains committed to impossibly high standards, they most likely missed out on which childhood experience?
5. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?
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