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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If one of their parents was unfaithful, a person will most likely exhibit which behavior?
(a) Become an unfaithful partner in their marriage.
(b) Refuse to enter a relationship.
(c) Avoid an affair at all cost.
(d) Seek out a partner who will commit equally.

2. Adults who lack self-discipline often did not have which childhood experience?
(a) Freedom to explore new ideas granted.
(b) Consequences for their actions explained.
(c) Love from their parents shown.
(d) Realistic boundaries enforced.

3. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They cannot accurately express their emotions.
(b) They compare themselves to the lover.
(c) They regret the time lost with their partner.
(d) They lose the sense of being special.

4. A loss of sense of purpose can lead to which outcome for the hurt partner?
(a) Withdrawing sexually.
(b) Taking the children.
(c) Suicidal thoughts.
(d) Wanting a divorce.

5. Chapter seven is divided into sections based on which two skills?
(a) Talking and listening.
(b) Acknowledging and accepting.
(c) Forgiving and forgetting.
(d) Communicating and understanding.

Short Answer Questions

1. A partner may refuse to discuss the affair because of which false assumption?

2. What is the main purpose of the book?

3. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?

4. The person involved in the relationship, but who is not one of the married partners, is termed which of the following?

5. How many psychological reactions, which can be experienced by the unfaithful partner after the discovery of the affair, does the book address?

(see the answer key)

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