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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 1 - The Hurt Partner's Response: Buried in an Avalanche of Losses.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. What is one of the main purposes of the introduction?
(a) To establish themes of the book.
(b) To explain how affairs begin.
(c) To create interest in the text.
(d) To advise the reader in their relationship.

2. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
(a) Discussing the secret nature of the affair.
(b) Making an appointment to see a marriage counselor.
(c) Discovering the identity of the lover.
(d) Managing emotions until feelings can normalize.

3. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?
(a) Working to recommit on an intimate level.
(b) Moving the unfaithful partner out of the house.
(c) Deciding whether to separate or stay together.
(d) Telling the children about the affair.

4. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They lose the sense of being special.
(b) They cannot accurately express their emotions.
(c) They regret the time lost with their partner.
(d) They compare themselves to the lover.

5. An affair, as described by the book, may not always include which behavior?
(a) Keeping secrets.
(b) Breach of trust.
(c) Sexual intercourse.
(d) Feelings of betrayal.

Short Answer Questions

1. If a hurt partner attempts to win back the unfaithful partner, what is the psychological effect on the hurt partner?

2. Why is the personal identity of a hurt partner affected by an affair?

3. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?

4. Why does an affair need to be understood?

5. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?

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