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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. After closer examination, the rationalizations used by the unfaithful partner to justify the affair often can be described in which way?
(a) Biased.
(b) Unsustainable.
(c) Valid.
(d) Illogical.

2. If a couple does not adequately communicate their desires and needs, they may begin to view each other in which way?
(a) Detached.
(b) Unsupportive.
(c) Dissimilar.
(d) Judgmental.

3. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
(a) Illusion.
(b) Void.
(c) Deficiency.
(d) Schema.

4. Relationships can be repaired if both partners react in which way?
(a) With desire to keep their family together at all costs.
(b) With willingness to work at the relationship.
(c) With acceptance and forgiveness for the affair.
(d) With acknowledgement of the level of damage from the affair.

5. A hurt partner may believe their unfaithful partner is intentionally trying to achieve which task instead of changing for good?
(a) Deception.
(b) Adultery.
(c) Betrayal.
(d) Cheat.

Short Answer Questions

1. Who is the book's primary audience?

2. Although many hurt partners feel that 'good things happen to good people,' how does the discovery of the affair affect this sentiment?

3. Forgiveness can be described in which way?

4. If the hurt partner chooses to remain with the unfaithful partner even though the relationship is dysfunctional, which term described this type of love?

5. Who do children need to value in their lives?

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