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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Part II, Getting to Where You Want to Be, Chapter 8, Being Kind to Yourself.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. The goal of Buber's portrayal in his book is to keep those involved in the relationship from losing what important quality?
(a) Friendliness.
(b) Individuality.
(c) Happiness.
(d) Compassion.

2. According to Schwartz, one must _____ the past but not forget it.
(a) Focus on.
(b) Dismiss.
(c) Relive.
(d) Learn from.

3. Schwartz relates that in trying to distinguish between what you want and what you need, one should have what basic need?
(a) The need to feel connected to others.
(b) The need to change.
(c) The need to make other like you.
(d) The need to listen and not talk.

4. Schwartz stresses that one should do their best to find ways to be _____.
(a) Useful.
(b) Less of a burden.
(c) Compassionate.
(d) Helpful to those around them.

5. Schwartz views grief as a way of giving respect to __________.
(a) Your family.
(b) Your self.
(c) Life.
(d) Your friends.

Short Answer Questions

1. Schwartz explains that many of us are too hard on ourselves for our _____.

2. Schwartz encourages friends and family to let the grieving person do what action in front of them?

3. According to Schwartz, what is the effect of negative feelings?

4. Schwartz must learn to become more _____ as the disease worsens.

5. When seeking help with the disease, Schwartz finally decided to talk to whom?

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