Revisiting the Past

The theme of revisiting the past plays a central role in the novel, shaping both the structure of the narrative and Tom’s emotional journey. The catalyst for this process is the present moment in which his daughter Miri leaves for college. Her departure marks the end of a long phase of family life and forces Tom to confront the circumstances of his own life. For years he had delayed making difficult decisions, particularly after Amy’s affair, when he resolved to remain in the marriage until Miri left home. Once that moment finally arrives, the suspension that has defined the previous decade ends, prompting Tom to reflect on how he reached this point.

Tom’s reflections take him back to his childhood, especially the experience of his father abandoning the family. This event continues to shape his understanding of relationships and responsibility. Because...