2. What did Nicole say when a couple asked her if she ever felt like her parents were not her real parents?
(a) Rarely.
(b) Sometimes.
(c) All the time.
(d) Never.

3. How did Nicole’s parents explain the opportunity to adopt a child to themselves?
(a) As a great chance.
(b) As a fortuitous twist of fate.
(c) As God’s will.
(d) As a divine synchronicity.

4. What does Nicole say is often missing in transracial adoptions?
(a) Guidance.
(b) Financial support.
(c) Assimilation support.
(d) Therapy for the child.

5. What circumstance made Nicole hesitant to look for her birth parents during high school?
(a) Her family moved a lot.
(b) She fell in love with her first boyfriend.
(c) Her parents had marital troubles.
(d) Her mother had a cancer scare.

6. When Nicole asked herself what she wanted, what did she say?
(a) She wanted to see her features in someone else’s face.
(b) She wanted to know that the adoption had been for the best for everyone else as well.
(c) She wanted to know how her birth family spoke about her.
(d) She wanted to offer forgiveness.

7. How many Koreans does Nicole say lived in the town she grew up in, other than her?
(a) One family.
(b) A few.
(c) A small community.
(d) None.

8. How old was Nicole when the couple asked her about adoption?
(a) Mid-twenties.
(b) A few months out of college.
(c) Freshman year of college.
(d) Junior year of high school.

9. What did Nicole say she had to show respect for when she had doubts about her adoption narrative?
(a) Her parents’ sacrifice.
(b) The doctors’ skills in saving her.
(c) The synchronicity that brought her to her parents.
(d) The church’s beneficence in finding her new parents.

10. What does Nicole say the name Susan means?
(a) Lily.
(b) Marigold.
(c) Peach blossom.
(d) Iris.

11. Where did Cindy learn to work hard, in Nicole’s account?
(a) Her sports teams.
(b) Her family’s store.
(c) Her community’s church.
(d) School.

12. How does Nicole characterize her adoptive mother’s hair?
(a) Red perm.
(b) Curly blonde.
(c) Straight black.
(d) Fine light brown.

13. How did Nicole’s father answer when she asked him if he ever thought about how she ended up with them?
(a) It was just Fate.
(b) He never thought about it.
(c) God wanted them to have her.
(d) It was a puzzle he thought about all the time.

14. What did Nicole start to look at through her child’s eyes?
(a) Her professional accomplishments.
(b) Her relationship with her mother.
(c) Her family history.
(d) Her religious life.

15. Where did Nicole take refuge from her bullying classmates?
(a) Daydreaming.
(b) Art.
(c) Books.
(d) Music.