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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.
Short Answer Questions
1. As children, Viorst thinks we test reality with what?
2. De-identification can help siblings feel superior in different ways, but it can also lead to what negative result?
3. According to Chapter 11, we sometimes fear that our fantasies can do what?
4. As a result of unconscious guilt, criminals sometimes do what?
5. According to Freud, when does the age of latency occur?
Short Essay Questions
1. Name two of the stages of mourning that Viorst describes in Chapter 16.
2. According to Chapter 17, what redefines us throughout our lives?
3. What did Alfred Adler note about the relationship between siblings and how it influences who we become as adults?
4. Who first discovered the Oedipus complex? How did he/she describe it?
5. What support does Viorst give to the Cinderella Complex?
6. When a child sees a mother as all-good or all-bad, how can this affect their future relationships?
7. Other than a parent, what other things impact who a child becomes?
8. Name the five stages of dying described by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross. Briefly describe each stage.
9. Why are we afraid of fantasies that portray socially unacceptable behavior?
10. What does it mean if a child and mother aren't a good fit?
Essay Topic 1
Discuss the six types of friends outlined in Chapter 12. What are they named, what are their characteristics, and how are they different?
Essay Topic 2
Compare and contrast the perception that our image of our mother as an all-loving, all-encompassing being with the reality of what most mother's really must be. Why do we all seem to have such idealistic perceptions of mothers as such selfless, loving beings? Are these perceptions based in some reality or just fantasy? How do these perceptions play out and affect who we become, our expectations for love in other relationships, etc.?
Essay Topic 3
Our desire to have our parents' love all to ourselves is often most obviously expressed after the birth of a sibling. Discuss the ways in which children try to cope and deal with these strong feelings. Be sure to use stories and support from the book.
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