Joshua Harris

In the following viewpoint, Joshua Harris argues that dating encourages short-term, uncommitted relationships that are based on physical attraction. Dating also tends to skip the friendship stage of a relationship, he contends, and moves right on to intimacy. Furthermore, Harris maintains, dating couples often concentrate on the physical aspect of their relationship, mistaking lust for love. Because sexual expressions of affection are a gift from God, dating—and the feelings of romantic love and intimacy that accompany it—should be reserved for marriage, he asserts. Harris is the author of I Kissed Dating Goodbye, from which the following viewpoint is excerpted.

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1. According to Harris, what is the point of most dating relationships"

2. Why is the friendship stage of a relationship important, in the author&rsquo...