Part I: Valerie Gibson; Part II: Eric Zorn

The authors of the following two-part viewpoint maintain that premarital sex is common and can be beneficial. In part I, journalist Valerie Gibson argues that those who advocate premarital celibacy are often women who wish to return to the days of female submissiveness and dependency on men. These women miss out on experiences that can lead to maturity and happiness, she contends. In part II, syndicated columnist Eric Zorn maintains that premarital sex, when handled responsibly, brings about insights and perspectives that are helpful in making decisions about lifelong commitments.

As you read, consider the following questions:

1. Who are the “Waiters,” according to Gibson"

2. According to scientific surveys cited by Zorn, what percentage of men and what percentage of women remain virgins until married"

3. In Zorn’s...