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This test consists of 15 multiple choice questions and 5 short answer questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. A major difference between friends and lovers is which of the following, according to Lewis?
(a) The quest for trust.
(b) The quest for security.
(c) The quest for privacy.
(d) The quest for total acceptance.

2. Lewis makes it a point to label which of the following as a serious topic?
(a) Bathing.
(b) Praying.
(c) Singing.
(d) Eating.

3. Lewis notes that in prior times, having friendships appeared to raise a person to which of the following?
(a) "High level of reverence and respect."
(b) "Level of immense popularity in the community."
(c) "Level of high authority."
(d) "Level of gods or angels."

4. Lewis points out that it is satisfying to know that your lover can be friends with which of the following?
(a) Your family members.
(b) Your friends.
(c) Your parents.
(d) Your former spouse.

5. Lewis notes that Eros will demand which of the following?
(a) Worship.
(b) Attention.
(c) Loyalty.
(d) Care.

6. Lewis notes that a change in societal attitudes relating to friendship label it as which of the following?
(a) "Friends can become part of an extended family."
(b) "Friends have become something to fill in the chinks."
(c) "Friends are like a garden. Cultivate the good ones, and weed out the bad ones."
(d) "Friends have become the main course of life's banquet."

7. According to Lewis, jealousy is applicable to which of the following in relation to affection?
(a) Change.
(b) Security.
(c) Love.
(d) Trust.

8. According to Lewis, what is likely to happen if a woman deprives her husband or significant other from friendships with others?
(a) He will begin to resent the actions of his spouse or significant other.
(b) He will no longer be the man to whom she was attracted.
(c) He will begin to consider removing his wife or significant other from his roster of friends.
(d) His outside friendships will diminish.

9. Lewis notes that people are more natural when in which of the following states?
(a) When crying.
(b) When fully clothed.
(c) While asleep.
(d) While writing.

10. A man may seek out friends as a means to fill his need for friends, but also to accomplish which of the following, according to Lewis?
(a) To be able to make his own choices in the selection of friends.
(b) To hone his ability to form friendship(s).
(c) To find friends who may befriend both him and his spouse or significant other.
(d) To rebel against the woman's control.

11. According to Lewis, which of the following methods is used to attempt to bring those falling into bad habits back into the fold?
(a) Reverse psychology.
(b) Immersion.
(c) Evaluation.
(d) VIctorian appeal.

12. Lewis cites that when men in a certain neighborhood spend their time working while the women may have pursued literary or artistic interests, how are the women likely to label the men?
(a) Barbaric.
(b) Narcissistic.
(c) Unsophisticated.
(d) Backwards.

13. According to Lewis, what element precludes crossing the lines of gender in relation to friendship?
(a) Nothing.
(b) Selectivity.
(c) Culture.
(d) Fear of rejection.

14. Who were our ancestors married to, according to Lewis?
(a) To their first love.
(b) To the first blue blood who would agree to marry them.
(c) To someone selected by their parents.
(d) To someone with whom they shared religious views.

15. A young lady told Lewis that key evenings only occurred when two men were prevented from engaging in talk about a "subject." The author labeled the scenario that the young lady described as which of the following?
(a) "Controlling Men in Your Vicinity."
(b) "Communication Prevention."
(c) "Creation of an Ambiance to Suit Women Only."
(d) "A War on Friendship."

Short Answer Questions

1. Which of the following does Lewis NOT cite as a factor that may have affected your choice in friends?

2. Lewis states that finding true affection, friendship, and deeper love for a person takes which of the following actions in order to evoke affection in return?

3. Lewis states that those who feel that they may be losing a loved one to change are fearful of which of the following?

4. Lewis equates meeting around the dinner table for conversation as which of the following?

5. Spouses sharing duties in the home, according to Lewis, contributes to which of the following?

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