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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. What happens when the authors include other people in their relationship?
(a) They make each other jealous on purpose.
(b) They make it work so no one gets left out.
(c) They leave each other out on purpose.
(d) They leave and get a restraining order.

2. What do the authors assume people will not suffer from?
(a) Being under-sexed.
(b) Being over-sexed.
(c) Being under-handed.
(d) Being over-staffed.

3. How do the authors recommend people to communicate in 'fair fighting'?
(a) Using "I" messages.
(b) Using "Someone" messages.
(c) Using "You" messages.
(d) Using "We" messages.

4. In the book's examples, how is a person likely to feel when a lover goes out on a date with someone else?
(a) If that person's needs are being met, they may feel okay.
(b) If that person's needs are being met, it might aggravate the wound.
(c) If that person's needs are not being met, they may feel okay.
(d) If that person's needs are being met, it might cause jealousy.

5. The authors state that this can cause individuals who are "sluts" to feel "marked" in some public manner:
(a) Their language.
(b) Their behavior.
(c) Their appearance.
(d) Their thoughts.

Short Answer Questions

1. What is the first listed requisite for intimacy in the book?

2. When do the authors recommend taking any step to make oneself feel safer and more comfortable?

3. How do the authors feel about a woman being judged by her activities?

4. In "Judging Ourselves", what must be counteracted if internalized by an individual?

5. Which of the following would least likely be a suitable option for some "sluts"?

Short Essay Questions

1. What is one of the most important attributes for healthy sluts, and why?

2. How do the authors interpret the concept of the 'slut'?

3. What do the authors suggest is the 'best' way to mess a relationship up, and what are the effects?

4. How do the authors advocate the use of the legal system to protect their families?

5. What is the key to forming agreements with partners, and what are the benefits?

6. In terms of boundaries, how do the authors feel about sluts being accused of being indiscriminate?

7. How does one of the authors illustrate the idea that jealousy can tell people what they need or want for themselves?

8. What are some of the factors the authors mention which can contribute to how easily a person might get jealous?

9. How do the authors redefine specific terms beyond their general usage?

10. How do the authors recommend dealing with one's own feelings and emotions?

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