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This test consists of 5 multiple choice questions, 5 short answer questions, and 10 short essay questions.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. What is a negative consequence of subtle outercourse, according to the book?
(a) Dissatisfaction.
(b) Misinterpretation.
(c) Pregnancy.
(d) Infertility.

2. The book advocates sexual behavior as an activity that is meant to be what?
(a) Feared.
(b) Enjoyed.
(c) Excessive.
(d) Non-existent.

3. If custodial arrangements are not proactively covered legally, according to the book, what happens?
(a) Pre-existing laws will cover them.
(b) The children will be taken away.
(c) Nothing happens.
(d) The parents will be imprisoned.

4. Which of the following statements does NOT describe the background of the authors' sexual identification?
(a) One of them identified as bisexual the whole time.
(b) One of them identified as lesbian the whole time.
(c) One of them identified as bisexual for a number of years.
(d) One of them first identified as heterosexual.

5. How do the authors think "sluts" compare to most people regarding boundaries?
(a) "Sluts" have weaker boundaries than most people.
(b) "Sluts" have stronger boundaries than most people.
(c) "Sluts" have more boundaries than most people.
(d) "Sluts" have less boundaries than most people.

Short Answer Questions

1. What is the first listed requisite for intimacy in the book?

2. What actions do the authors suggest are central to messing up a relationship?

3. When do the authors recommend taking any step to make oneself feel safer and more comfortable?

4. What do the authors advocate between lovers?

5. The authors state that this can cause individuals who are "sluts" to feel "marked" in some public manner:

Short Essay Questions

1. Explain how the concept of 'ownership' provides opportunities to exercise one's fantasies.

2. How do the authors recommend dealing with one's own feelings and emotions?

3. How do the authors advocate the use of the legal system to protect their families?

4. Name a mitigating activity listed by the authors and describe why it fits in that category.

5. How do the authors counter the idea of 'serial monogamy' as the only 'real' type of relationship?

6. How do the authors redefine specific terms beyond their general usage?

7. How does the example of the 'little girl and Daddy' role-play illustrate the concept of boundaries?

8. How do the authors strike a balance between their relationship with one another and their relationships with other people?

9. How do the authors define and then defend the term "promiscuous"?

10. In terms of boundaries, how do the authors feel about sluts being accused of being indiscriminate?

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