The following is from Antoine de Courtin's New Treatise on Civility (1672), an etiquette book that guest's at Louis XlV's Versailles probably followed. The relationship between manners and consolidating status hierarchies is quite evident — note the references to "people of higher rank," and "people so delicate." Note also how the disciplining process is evolving, both in terms of relating table manners to feelings of shame, repugnance, and physical pain, but also in terms of sophistication — guests can receive additional spoons and plates from the host if etiquette requires it

If everyone is eating from the same-dish, you should take care not to put your hand into it before those of higher rank have done so, and to take food only from the part of the dish opposite you. Still less should you take the best pieces, even though you might be the last to...