large diamond, made very thin, serves as a glass.  Mme. de B — , having returned the diamond, “M. le Prince de Conti had it ground to powder which he used to dry the ink of the note he wrote to Mme. de B — on the subject.”  This pinch of powder cost 4 or 5,000 livres, but we may divine the turn and tone of the note.  The extreme of profusion must accompany the height of gallantry, the man of the world being so much the more important according to his contempt for money.

III.  Universal pleasure seeking.

Moral divorce of husband and wife. — Gallantry. — Separation of parents and children. — Education, its object and omissions. — The tone of servants and purveyors. — Pleasure seeking universal.

In a drawing room the woman who receives the least attention from a man is his own wife, and she returns the compliment.  Hence at a time like this, when people live for society and in society, there is no place for conjugal intimacy. — Moreover, when a married couple occupy an exalted position they are separated by custom and decorum.  Each party has his or her own household, or at least their own apartments, servants, equipage, receptions and distinct society, and, as entertainment entails ceremony, they stand towards each other in deference to their rank on the footing of polite strangers.  They are each announced in each other’s apartment; they address each other “Madame, Monsieur,” and not alone in public, but in private; they shrug their shoulders when, sixty leagues out from Paris, they encounter in some old chateau a provincial wife ignorant enough to say “my dear " to her husband before company.[26] — Already separated at the fireside, the two lives diverge beyond it at an ever increasing radius.  The husband has a government of his own:  his private command, his private regiment, his post at court, which keeps him absent from home; only in his declining years does his wife consent to follow him into garrison or into the provinces.[27] And rather is this the case because she is herself occupied, and as seriously as himself; often with a position near a princess, and always with an important circle of company which she must maintain.  At this epoch woman is as active as man,[28] following the same career, and with the same resources, consisting of the flexible voice, the winning grace, the insinuating manner, the tact, the quick perception of the right moment, and the art of pleasing, demanding, and obtaining; there is not a lady at court who does not bestow regiments and benefices.  Through this right the wife has her personal retinue of solicitors and protégés, also, like her husband, her friends, her enemies, her own ambitions, disappointments, and rancorous feeling; nothing could be more effectual in the disruption of a household than this similarity of occupation and this division of interests. — The tie thus loosened ends by being sundered under the ascendancy of opinion.  “It looks well not to live together,” to grant each other every species of tolerance, and to devote oneself to society.  Society, indeed, then fashions opinion, and through opinion it creates the morals which it requires.