they first teach the heart to love—not fear;
they warn against the evils of life—teach
the good, and the child’s duties to its parents,
to its brothers and sisters, to its teachers, to its
playmates, and to its God. When the heart is mellowed
and yields obedience in the faithful discharge of
these duties, and the brain sufficiently matured to
comprehend the necessity of them, then attention is
directed to the mind; its capacities are learned and
known, and it is treated as this knowledge teaches
is proper: it is, as the farmer knows, the soil
of his cultivation, and is prepared by careful tillage
before the seed is sown. The vision of the child’s
mind is by degrees expanded; the horizon of its knowledge
is enlarged, and still the heart’s culture goes
on in kindness and affection. The pupil has learned
to love the teacher, and receives with alacrity his
teaching; he goes to him, without fear, for information
on every point of duty in morals, as on every difficult
point of literary learning. He knows he will
be received kindly, and dealt with gently. Should
he err, he is never rebuked in public, nor harshly
in private; the teacher is aggrieved, and in private
he kindly complains to the offender, whose love for
his preceptor makes him to feel, and repent, and to
err no more. All this is only known to the two;
his school-fellows never know, and have no opportunity
for triumph or raillery. Thus taught from the
cradle, principles become habits; and on these, at
maturity, he is launched upon the world, with every
safeguard for his future life. So with the girl.
With the experience of forty-five years, the writer
has never known a vicious, bad woman, wife, or mother
trained in a Jesuit convent, or reared by an educated
Catholic mother.
The daughters of the pioneers of Georgia’s early
settlements received a home education; at least, in
the duties of domestic life. In the discharge
of these duties, they gained robust constitutions and
vigorous health; they increased the butcher’s
bill at the expense of the doctor’s; and such
women were the mothers of the men who have made a
history for their country, for themselves and their
mothers. I may be prolix and prosaic, but I love
to remember the mothers of fifty years ago—she
who gave birth to Lucius Q.C. and Mirabeau B. Lamar,
to William C. Dawson, Bishop George Pierce, Alexander
Stuart, Joseph Lumpkin, and glorious Bob Toombs.
I knew them all, and, with affectionate delight, remember
their virtues, and recall the social hours we have
enjoyed together, when they were matrons, and I the
companion of their sons. And now, when all are
gone, and time is crowding me to the grave, the nobleness
of their characters, the simplicity of their bearing
in the discharge of their household duties, and the
ingenuousness of their manners in social intercourse,
is a cherished, venerated memory. None of these
women were ever in a boarding-school, never received
a lesson in the art of entering a drawing-room or