bosom, as well as to the growth of the person and
mind, than to be told what they should be by one disappointed
of all the fruits of them, and hating the world because
she is! It is the mother who should form the sentiments
and direct the conduct of daughters, and in their
teachings should never forget that nature is teaching
also. Let their lessons always teach the proper
indulgences of nature, as well as the proper and prudent
restraints to the natural feelings of the human heart,
and so deport themselves toward their daughters from
infancy as to win their confidence and affection.
The daughters, when properly trained, will always come
with their little complaints in childhood, and seek
consolation, leaning upon the parent’s knee,
and, with solicitude, look up into the parental face
for sympathy and advice. Home-teaching and home-training
makes the proper woman. When this is properly
attended to, there needs no boarding-school or female-college
finish, which too frequently uproots every virtuous
principle implanted by the careful and affectionate
teaching of pious, gentle, and intelligent mothers.
But few mothers, who are themselves properly trained,
forget nature in the training and education of their
daughters; and a truly natural woman is a blessing
to society and a crown of glory to her husband.
I mean by a natural training a knowledge of herself,
as well as a knowledge of the offices of life and
the domestic duties of home. Every woman in her
girlhood should learn from her mother the mission
and destinies of woman, as well as what is due to
society, to their families, to themselves, and to
God. The woman who enters life with a knowledge
of what life is, and what is due to her and from her
in all the relations of life, has a thousand chances
for happiness through life unknown to the belle of
the boarding-school, who, away from home influences,
is artificially educated to be in all things prominent
before the world, and entirely useless in the discharge
of domestic duties. She may figure as the lady-president
or vice-president of charitable associations, or the
lady-president of some prominent or useless society;
but never as a dutiful, devoted wife, or affectionate,
instructive mother to her children. Her household
is managed by servants, and about her home nothing
evinces the neat, provident, and attentive housewife.
The whole system of education, as practised by the Protestants of the United States, is wrong; religious prejudice prevents their learning from the Catholics, and particularly from the Jesuit Catholics, who are far in advance of their Protestant brethren. They learn from the child as they teach the child. In the first place, none are permitted to teach who are not by nature, as well as by education, qualified to teach; nature must give the gentleness, the kindness, and the patience, with the capacity to impart instruction. They learn, first, the child’s nature, the peculiarities of temper, and fashion these to obedience and affection;


