having nothing at all to do with the
mind,
which is invariably debilitated and debased by profligate
indulgences. Yet this miserable piece of sophistry,
the offspring of parental weakness, is in constant
use, to the incalculable injury of the rising generation.
What so amiable as a steady, trust-worthy boy?
He is of
real use at an early age: he
can be trusted far out of the sight of parent or employer,
while the ‘pickle,’ as the poor fond parents
call the profligate, is a great deal worse than useless,
because there must be some one to see that he does
no harm. If you have to choose, choose companions
of
your own rank in life as nearly as may be;
but, at any rate, none to whom you acknowledge
inferiority;
for, slavery is too soon learned; and, if the mind
be bowed down in the youth, it will seldom rise up
in the man. In the schools of those best of teachers
the JESUITS, there is perfect equality as to rank
in life: the boy, who enters there, leaves all
family pride behind him: intrinsic merit alone
is the standard of preference; and the masters are
so scrupulous upon this head, that they do not suffer
one scholar, of whatever rank, to have more money
to spend than the poorest. These wise men know
well the mischiefs that must arise from inequality
of pecuniary means amongst their scholars: they
know how injurious it would be to learning, if deference
were, by the learned, paid to the dunce; and they,
therefore, take the most effectual means to prevent
it. Hence, amongst other causes, it is, that
their scholars have, ever since the existence of their
Order, been the most celebrated for learning of any
men in the world.
37. In your manners be neither boorish
nor blunt, but even these are preferable to simpering
and crawling. I wish every English youth could
see those of the United States of America; always civil,
never servile. Be obedient, where
obedience is due; for, it is no act of meanness, and
no indication of want of spirit, to yield implicit
and ready obedience to those who have a right to demand
it at your hands. In this respect England has
been, and I hope always will be, an example to the
whole world. To this habit of willing and prompt
obedience in apprentices, in servants, in all inferiors
in station, she owes, in a great measure, her multitudes
of matchless merchants, tradesmen, and workmen of
every description, and also the achievements of her
armies and navies. It is no disgrace, but the
contrary, to obey, cheerfully, lawful and just commands.
None are so saucy and disobedient as slaves; and,
when you come to read history, you will find that in
proportion as nations have been free has been
their reverence for the laws. But, there is a
wide difference between lawful and cheerful obedience
and that servility which represents people as laying
petitions ’at the king’s feet,’
which makes us imagine that we behold the supplicants
actually crawling upon their bellies. There is