Change in Life Is Inevitable

Margot’s break- up with Josh, the demolition of the tree house, and Kitty’s growing up are all life events that demonstrate that change is inevitable. When Kitty tells Lara Jean that she wishes life did not change, Lara Jean reminds her sister that there are good changes as well as bad changes. All of these changes impact the lives of different people in different ways with some of these causing irreparable rifts.

Margot’s break up with Josh is one of the changes that causes an irreparable rift between Josh’s family and Margot’s family. Both Josh and Lara Jean admit that they miss each other’s friendships and wish that they could talk again like they once did. Because of the changes caused by the breakup and the strength of family loyalties, however, it appears that their relationship...