Scott Bidstrup

About the author: Scott Bidstrup is a freelance writer and the founder of Rancho Ambiente, a foster parent home for homeless gay teenagers in southern California.

Most opposition to gay marriage results from the stereotype that gays are sexually promiscuous and unable to form long-term relationships. Gays have relationships that are as permanent and stable as those of straight people. Moreover, gay marriage would not harm children: Studies show that what is most important to children is the love they receive from their parents, not their parents' gender. There are no moral reasons to oppose gay marriage. The real reason people oppose gay marriage is that they are uncomfortable with homosexuality and the idea of gay sex and same-sex marriage.

Ask just about anyone. They'll all tell you they're in favor of equal rights...