Ender's Shadow: Habits of Mind

I need specific example when characters in Ender's Shadow use Habits of Mind:

Managing Impulsivity

Listening with Understanding and Empathy

Thinking Flexibly

Striving for Accuracy

Thinking and Communicating with Clarity & Precision

Responding with Wonderment and Awe

Taking Responsible Risks

Finding Humor

Thinking Interdependently

Remaining Open to Continuous Learning