A sensible daughter, who loves her parents, will hardly forget to whom she is indebted for all the superior advantages she enjoys.  She will also readily perceive that the experience which her parents have acquired, and their natural strength of mind, give them a real and great superiority over her, and make their judgment, in all matters of life, far more to be depended upon than hers could possibly be.  It may be that her mother has never learned to play upon the piano, has never been to a dancing-school, has never had any thing beyond the merest rudiments of an education; but she has good sense, prudence, industry, economy; understands and practises all the virtues of domestic life; has a clear, discriminating judgment; has been her husband’s faithful friend and adviser for some twenty or thirty years; and has safely guarded and guided her children up to mature years.  These evidences of a mother’s title to her respect and fullest confidence cannot long be absent from a daughter’s mind, and will prevent her acting in direct opposition to her judgment.

Thoughtless indeed must be that child who can permit an emotion of disrespect toward her parents to dwell in her bosom for more than a single moment!

Respect and love toward parents are absolutely necessary to the proper formation of the character upon that true basis which will bring into just order and subordination all the powers of the mind.  Without this order and subordination there can be no true happiness.  A child loves and respects his parents, because from them he derived his being, and from them receives every blessing and comfort.  To them, and to them alone, does his mind turn as the authors of all the good gifts he possessed.  As a mere child, it is right for him thus to regard his parents as the authors of his being and the originators of all his blessings.  But as reason gains strength, and he sees more deeply into the nature and causes of things, which only takes place as the child approaches the years of maturity, it is then seen that the parents were only the agents through which life, and all the blessings accompanying it, came from God, the great Father of all.  If the parents have been loved with a truly filial love, then the mind has been suitably opened and prepared for love toward God, and an obedience to his divine laws, without which there can be no true happiness.  When this new and higher truth takes possession of the child’s mind, it in no way diminishes his respect for his earthly parents, but increases it.  He no longer obeys them because they command obedience, but he regards the truth of their precepts, and in that truth hears the voice of God speaking to him.  More than ever is he now careful to listen to their wise counsels, because he perceives in them the authority of reason, which is the authority of God.