The Home Mission eBook

Timothy Shay Arthur
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 207 pages of information about The Home Mission.

The Home Mission eBook

Timothy Shay Arthur
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 207 pages of information about The Home Mission.
equally true, and that those who have least regard for home—­who have, indeed, no home, no domestic circle—­are the worst citizens.  This they may not be apparently; they may not break the laws, nor do any thing to call down upon them censure from the community, and yet, in the secret and almost unconscious dissemination of demoralizing principles, may be doing a work far more destructive of the public good than if they had committed a robbery.

We always feel pain when we hear a young man speak lightly of home, and talk carelessly, or, it may be, with sportive ridicule, of the “old man” and the “old woman,” as if they were of but little consequence.  We mark it as a bad indication, and feel that the feet of that young man are treading upon dangerous ground.  His home education may not have been of the best kind, nor may home influences have reached his higher and better feelings; but he is at least old enough now to understand the causes, and to seek rather to bring into his home all that it needs to render it more attractive, than to estrange himself from it and expose its defects.

Instances of this kind are not of very frequent occurrence.  Home has its charms for nearly all, and the very name comes with a blessing to the spirit.  This, however, is more the case with those who have been separated from it, than it is with those who yet remain in the old homestead with parents, brothers, and sisters, as their friends and companions.

The earnest love of home, felt by nearly all who have been compelled to leave that pleasant place, is a feeling that should be tenderly cherished:  and this love should be kept alive by associations that have in them as perfect a resemblance of home as it is possible to obtain.  It is for this reason that it is bad for a young man to board in a large hotel, where there is nothing in which there is even an image of the home-circle.  Each has his separate chamber; but that is not home.  All meet together at the common table; but there is no home feeling there, with its many sweet reciprocations.  The meal completed, all separate, each to his individual pursuit or pleasure.  There is a parlour, it is true; but there are no family gatherings there.  One and another sit there, as inclination prompts; but each sits alone, busy with his own thoughts.  All this is a poor substitute for home.  And yet it offers its attractions to some.  A young man in a hotel has more freedom than in a family or private boarding-house.  He comes in and goes out unobserved; there is no one to say to him, “why?” or “wherefore?” But this is a dangerous freedom, and one which no young man should desire.

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