Trials and Confessions of a Housekeeper eBook

Timothy Shay Arthur
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 266 pages of information about Trials and Confessions of a Housekeeper.

Trials and Confessions of a Housekeeper eBook

Timothy Shay Arthur
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 266 pages of information about Trials and Confessions of a Housekeeper.

Now, for all that aunt Rachel went on after this strain, she was a kind, good soul, in the main, and I could see, was sorry for having hurt the feelings of Mary Lane.  But she didn’t like to acknowledge that she was in the wrong; that would detract too much from the self-complacency with which she regarded herself.  Knowing her character very well, I thought it best not to continue the little argument about the importance of words, and so changed the subject.  But, every now and then, aunt Rachel would return to it, each time softening a little towards Mary.  At last she said: 

“I’m sure it was a little thing.  A very little thing.  She might have known that nothing unkind was intended on my part.”

“There are some subjects, aunt,” I replied, “to which we cannot bear the slightest allusion.  And a sudden reference to them is very apt to throw us off of our guard.  What you said to Mary, has, in all probability, touched some weakness of character, or probed some wound that time has been able to heal.  I have always thought her a sensible, good natured girl.”

“And so have I. But I really cannot think that she has shown her good sense or good nature in the present case.  It is a very bad failing this, of being over sensitive; and exceedingly annoying to one’s friends.”

“It is, I know; but still, all of us have a weak point, and when that is assailed, we are very apt to betray our feelings.”

“Well, I say now, as I have always said—­I don’t like to have any thing to do with people who have these weak points.  This being hurt by a word, as if words were blows, is something that does not come within the range of my sympathies.”

“And yet, aunt,” said I, “all have weak points.  Even you are not entirely free from them.”

“Me!” aunt Rachel bridled.

“Yes; and if even as light a thing as a word were to fall upon them, you would suffer pain.”

“Pray, ma’am,” said, aunt Rachel, with much dignity of manner; she was chafed by my words, light as they were; “inform me where these weaknesses, of which you are pleased to speak, lie?”

“Oh, no; you must excuse me.  That would be very much out of place.  But I only stated a general fact that appertains to all of us.”

Aunt Rachel looked very grave.  I had laid the weight of words upon a weakness of her character, and it had given her pain.  That weakness was a peculiarly good opinion of herself.  I had made no allegation against her; and there was none in my mind.  My words simply expressed the general truth that we all have weaknesses, and included her in their application.  But she imagined that I referred to some particular defect or fault, and mail-proof as she was against words, they had wounded her.

For a day or two, aunt Rachel remained more sober than was her wont.  I knew the cause, but did not attempt to remove from her mind an impression my words had made.  One day, about a week after, I said to her: 

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