But the thing to remember is that the one condition of art is that the thought and the expression must be individual and absolutely sincere.  To be accepted matters little, if only you have said what is in your heart.

Of course, many things must be combined as well—­style, magic of word-painting, harmony, beauty.  There are many people whose strong and sincere thoughts cannot be uttered, because they have no power of expression; but even these are all personality too.

There must be no deep and vital despondency in the artist’s heart as to his right and power to speak.  His duty is to gain flexibility by perseverance; and, meanwhile, to analyse, to keep his mind large and sympathetic, to open all the windows of his heart to the day; not to be conventional, prejudiced, or wilful; to believe that any one who can see beauty or truth in a thing is nearer to its essence than one who can only criticise or despise.

This is roughly and awkwardly put; but I believe it to be true.  Tell me what you feel about it; stay me with flagons, whatever that mysterious process may be. . . .—­Ever yours,

T. B.

Oxford,
Dec. 23, 1904.

My dear Herbert,—­I came down, as soon as the term was over, to Oxford, where I have come in the way of a good deal of talk.  I find that I become somewhat of a connoisseur in the matter of conversation as I grow older; and I must also confess that such powers as I possess in that direction are of the tete-a-tete order.  A candid friend of mine, a gracious lady, who wields some of the arts of a salon, lately took the wind out of my sails, on an occasion when I formed one of a large and rather tongue-tied party at her house.  I had flung myself, rather strenuously, into the breach, and had talked with more valour than discretion.  Later in the evening I had a little confabulation with herself, at the end of which she said to me, with a vaguely reminiscent air, “What a pity it is that you are only a tete-a-tete talker!”

To be a salon talker indeed requires a certain self-possession, a kind of grasp of the different individuals which surround you, which is of the nature of Napoleonic strategy.

At Oxford one does not find much general conversation.  The party which meets night by night in Hall is too large for any diffused talk; and, moreover, the clink and clash of service, the merry chatter of the undergraduates fill the scene with a background of noise.  There is a certain not unpleasant excitement, of the gambling type, as to who one’s neighbours will be.  Sometimes by a dexterous stroke one can secure one’s chosen companion; but it also may happen that one may be at the end of the row of the first detachment which sits down to dinner (for the table slowly fills), and then it is like a game of dominoes; it is uncertain who may occupy one’s nether flank.  But the party is so large that there is a great variety.