It is not only these spectral terrors against which children have to be guarded.  All severity and sharp indignity of punishment, all intemperate anger, all roughness of treatment, should be kept in strict restraint.  There are noisy, boisterous, healthy children, of course, who do not resent or even dread sharp usage.  But it is not always easy to discover the sensitive child, because fear of displeasure will freeze him into a stupor of apparent dullness and stubbornness.  I am always infuriated by stupid people who regret the disappearance of sharp, stern, peremptory punishments, and lament the softness of the rising generation.  If punishment must be inflicted, it should be done good-naturedly and robustly as a natural tit-for-tat.  Anger should be reserved for things like spitefulness and dishonesty and cruelty.  There is nothing more utterly confusing to the childish mind than to have trifling faults treated with wrath and indignation.  It is true that, in the world of nature, punishment seems often wholly disproportionate to offences.  Nature will penalise carelessness in a disastrous fashion, and spare the cautious and prudent sinner.  But there is no excuse for us, if we have any sense of justice and patience at all, for not setting a better example.  We ought to show children that there is a moral order which we are endeavouring to administer.  If parents and schoolmasters, who are both judges and executioners, allow their own rule to be fortuitous, indulge their own irritable moods, punish severely a trifling fault, and sentimentalise or condone a serious one, a child is utterly confused.  I know several people who have had their lives blighted, have been made suspicious, cynical, crafty, and timid, by severe usage and bullying and open contempt in childhood.  The thing to avoid, for all who are responsible in the smallest degree for the nurture of children, is to call in the influence of fear; one may speak plainly of consequences, but even there one must not exaggerate, as schoolmasters often do, for the best of motives, about moral faults; one may punish deliberate and repeated disobedience, wanton cruelty, persistent and selfish disregard of the rights of others, but one must warn many times, and never try to triumph over a fault by the infliction of a shock of any kind.  The shock is the most cruel and cowardly sort of punishment, and if we wilfully use it, then we are perpetuating the sad tyranny of instinctive fear, and using the strength of a great angel to do the work of a demon, such as I saw long ago in the old magazine, and felt its tyranny for many days.