that he not only rudely rejected them, saying that
neither he nor any of his predecessors had ever been
wont to take, and that it was their office to give;
but, moreover, caused the ambassadors sent with the
gifts to be put into a dungeon. When Thetis,
says Aristotle, flatters Jupiter, when the Lacedaemonians
flatter the Athenians, they do not put them in mind
of the good they have done them, which is always odious,
but of the benefits they have received from them.
Such as I see so frequently employ every one in their
affairs, and thrust themselves into so much obligation,
would never do it, did they but relish as I do the
sweetness of a pure liberty, and did they but weigh,
as wise: men should, the burden of obligation:
’tis sometimes, peradventure, fully paid, but
’tis never dissolved. ’Tis a miserable
slavery to a man who loves to be at full liberty in
all reapects. Such as know me, both above and
below me in station, are able to say whether they
have ever known a man less importuning, soliciting,
entreating, and pressing upon others than I. If I
am so, and a degree beyond all modern example, ’tis
no great wonder, so many parts of my manners contributing
to it: a little natural pride, an impatience
at being refused, the moderation of my desires and
designs, my incapacity for business, and my most beloved
qualities, idleness and freedom; by all these together
I have conceived a mortal hatred to being obliged
to any other, or by any other than myself. I
leave no stone unturned, to do without it, rather
than employ the bounty of another in any light or
important occasion or necessity whatever. My
friends strangely trouble me when they ask me to ask
a third person; and I think it costs me little less
to disengage him who is indebted to me, by making
use of him, than to engage myself to him who owes me
nothing. These conditions being removed, and
provided they require of me nothing if any great trouble
or care (for I have declared mortal war against all
care), I am very ready to do every one the best service
I can. I have been very willing to seek occasion
to do people a good turn, and to attach them to me;
and methinks there is no more agreeable employment
for our means. But I have yet more avoided receiving
than sought occasions of giving, and moreover, according
to Aristotle, it is more easy., My fortune has allowed
me but little to do others good withal, and the little
it can afford, is put into a pretty close hand.
Had I been born a great person, I should have been
ambitious to have made myself beloved, not to make
myself feared or admired: shall I more plainly
express it? I should more have endeavoured to
please than to profit others. Cyrus very wisely,
and by the mouth of a great captain, and still greater
philosopher, prefers his bounty and benefits much
before his valour and warlike conquests; and the elder
Scipio, wherever he would raise himself in esteem,
sets a higher value upon his affability and humanity,
than on his prowess and victories, and has always


