Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman, 1749 eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 167 pages of information about Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman, 1749.

Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman, 1749 eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 167 pages of information about Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman, 1749.
know how far, in your conscience, you think it like; for there are some parts of it which I wish may, and others, which I should be sorry were.  I send you, literally, the copy of that part of her letter, to her friend here, which relates to you.—­[In compliance to your orders, I have examined young Stanhope carefully, and think I have penetrated into his character.  This is his portrait, which I take to be a faithful one.  His face is pleasing, his countenance sensible, and his look clever.  His figure is at present rather too square; but if he shoots up, which he has matter and years for, he will then be of a good size.  He has, undoubtedly, a great fund of acquired knowledge; I am assured that he is master of the learned languages.  As for French, I know he speaks it perfectly, and, I am told, German as well.  The questions he asks are judicious; and denote a thirst after knowledge.  I cannot say that he appears equally desirous of pleasing, for he seems to neglect attentions and the graces.  He does not come into a room well, nor has he that easy, noble carriage, which would be proper for him.  It is true, he is as yet young and inexperienced; one may therefore reasonably hope that his exercises, which he has not yet gone through, and good company, in which he is still a novice, will polish, and give all that is wanting to complete him.  What seems necessary for that purpose, would, be an attachment to some woman of fashion, and who knows the world.  Some Madame de l’Ursay would be the proper person.  In short, I can assure you, that he has everything which Lord Chesterfield can wish him, excepting that carriage, those graces, and the style used in the best company; which he will certainly acquire in time, and by frequenting the polite world.  If he should not, it would be great pity, since he so well deserves to possess them.  You know their importance.  My Lord, his father, knows it too, he being master of them all.  To conclude, if little Stanhope acquires the graces, I promise you he will make his way; if not, he will be stopped in a course, the goal of which he might attain with honor.]

Tell Mr. Harte that I have this moment received his letter of the 22d, N. S., and that I approve extremely of the long stay you have made at Venice.  I love long residences at capitals; running post through different places is a most unprofitable way of traveling, and admits of no application.  Adieu.

You see, by this extract, of what consequence other people think these things.  Therefore, I hope you will no longer look upon them as trifles.  It is the character of an able man to despise little things in great business:  but then he knows what things are little, and what not.  He does not suppose things are little, because they are commonly called so:  but by the consequences that may or may not attend them.  If gaining people’s affections, and interesting their hearts in your favor, be of consequence, as it undoubtedly is, he knows

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