I hold that no man has a right (whatever his sex, of course) to have a garden to his own selfish uses.  He ought not to please himself, but every man to please his neighbor.  I tried to have a garden that would give general moral satisfaction.  It seemed to me that nobody could object to potatoes (a most useful vegetable); and I began to plant them freely.  But there was a chorus of protest against them.  “You don’t want to take up your ground with potatoes,” the neighbors said; “you can buy potatoes” (the very thing I wanted to avoid doing is buying things).  “What you want is the perishable things that you cannot get fresh in the market.”—­“But what kind of perishable things?” A horticulturist of eminence wanted me to sow lines of straw-berries and raspberries right over where I had put my potatoes in drills.  I had about five hundred strawberry-plants in another part of my garden; but this fruit-fanatic wanted me to turn my whole patch into vines and runners.  I suppose I could raise strawberries enough for all my neighbors; and perhaps I ought to do it.  I had a little space prepared for melons,—­muskmelons,—­which I showed to an experienced friend.

“You are not going to waste your ground on muskmelons?” he asked.  “They rarely ripen in this climate thoroughly, before frost.”  He had tried for years without luck.  I resolved to not go into such a foolish experiment.  But, the next day, another neighbor happened in.  “Ah!  I see you are going to have melons.  My family would rather give up anything else in the garden than musk-melons,—­of the nutmeg variety.  They are the most grateful things we have on the table.”  So there it was.  There was no compromise:  it was melons, or no melons, and somebody offended in any case.  I half resolved to plant them a little late, so that they would, and they would n’t.  But I had the same difficulty about string-beans (which I detest), and squash (which I tolerate), and parsnips, and the whole round of green things.

I have pretty much come to the conclusion that you have got to put your foot down in gardening.  If I had actually taken counsel of my friends, I should not have had a thing growing in the garden to-day but weeds.  And besides, while you are waiting, Nature does not wait.  Her mind is made up.  She knows just what she will raise; and she has an infinite variety of early and late.  The most humiliating thing to me about a garden is the lesson it teaches of the inferiority of man.  Nature is prompt, decided, inexhaustible.  She thrusts up her plants with a vigor and freedom that I admire; and the more worthless the plant, the more rapid and splendid its growth.  She is at it early and late, and all night; never tiring, nor showing the least sign of exhaustion.