sex; and his attentions to women were rendered with
a delicacy and a gallantry that were enhanced by the
reflection that such a man was not wholly at ease in
approaching them. And nobly did woman repay his
courtesy and his affection. As I dwell upon this
aspect of his life, the image of her who was the bride
of his youth, the partaker of his splendid fame, and
the delight of his declining years, rises before me.
I behold her as she moved in that happy household,
bestowing not a thought upon herself, but intent on
making others happy. I see her as she enters the
room in which her husband is discoursing on learned
topics to those who are grouped around him, and I
see him pause as that “ocean-eye” rests
benignantly and affectionately upon her. I shall
never forget the moment when thirty-five years ago
I saw her in her own house for the first time; how
cordially she pressed my hand; how kindly she talked
to an orphan boy of a father he had never known; and
how soon she put an awkward youth of seventeen at
his ease. The characteristic grace of that admirable
woman was her love of domestic life. With her
the throne of human felicity was the family altar.
Life with her, as it ever was with those elder Virginia
matrons whom she resembled, was too serious a business
for pomp and show. Had she been inspired with
a passion for display, had she coveted the fleeting
honors of a residence at a foreign court, or in the
metropolis of our own country, a single word from her
lips would have obtained all she wished. But
her heart, like a true Virginia mother as she was,
was in the midst of her family; and though she properly
appreciated the talents of her husband, and was willing
that they should be exerted in the public service,
she knew him well, and believed that he would be happier
in his own home than when he was beset with public
cares, or galled by those tortures with which ambition
wrings its victims. And when her last day had
come, and the union of more than half a century had
been dissolved, and her husband had seen her beloved
remains put away in that solitary tomb by the sea,
the charm of life was lost to him; and he calmly awaited
the hour when he should be laid by her side.
Nor did the generous care of woman cease with her death.
When his hour was come, and he was placed beside her,
his daughters, who had tended him for years with unceasing
devotion, were borne in almost a dying state from
his tomb.
He was keenly alive to the pleasures of friendship; and he maintained his affection for his early schoolmates unbroken to the last. His reverence for Mr. Wythe passed all words. Randolph loved him through life; and Tazewell reciprocated his affection with equal warmth. The tide of his affection for John Wickham from his childhood flowed full and strong. The relations which existed between them could be seen in the letter I read some time ago, and were earnest, tender, and affectionate. The affection which Tazewell cherished for Wickham, kindled, as we have


