of moral will, to the other sympathy, meekness, tenderness.
And just so solemn, and just so glorious as these
ends are for which the union was contemplated and intended,
just so terrible are the consequences if it be perverted
and abused. For there is no earthly relationship
which has so much power to ennoble and to exalt.
Very strong language does the apostle use in this
chapter respecting it: “What knoweth thou,
O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband?
or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save
thy wife?” The very power of saving belongs
to this relationship. And on the other hand,
there is no earthly relationship which has so much
power to wreck and ruin the soul. For there are
two rocks in this world of ours on which the soul
must either anchor or be wrecked. The one is
God; the other is the sex opposite to itself.
The one is the “Rock of Ages,” on which
if the human soul anchors it lives the blessed life
of faith; against which if the soul be dashed and
broken, there ensues the wreck of Atheism—the
worst ruin of the soul. The other rock is of
another character. Blessed is the man, blessed
is the woman whose life-experience has taught a confiding
belief in the excellencies of the sex opposite to
their own—a blessedness second only to
the blessedness of salvation. And the ruin in
the other case is second only to the ruin of everlasting
perdition—the same wreck and ruin of the
soul.
These then, are the two tremendous alternatives: on the one hand the possibility of securing, in all sympathy and tenderness, the laying of that step on which man rises towards his perfection; on the other hand the blight of all sympathy, to be dragged down to earth, and forced to become frivolous and common-place; to lose all zest and earnestness in life, to have heart and life degraded by mean and perpetually-recurring sources of disagreement; these are the two alternatives, and it is the worst of these alternatives which the young risk when they form an inconsiderate union, excusably indeed—because through inexperience; and it is the worst of these alternatives which parents risk—not excusably but inexcusably—when they bring up their children with no higher view of what that tie is, than the merely prudential one of a rich and honourable marriage.
The second decision which the apostle makes respecting another of the questions proposed to him by the Corinthians, is as to the sanctity of the marriage bond between a Christian and one who is a heathen. When Christianity first entered into our world, and was little understood, it seemed to threaten the dislocation and alteration of all existing relationships. Many difficulties arose; such for instance, as the one here started. When of two heathen parties only one was converted to Christianity, the question arose, What in this case is the duty of the Christian? Is not the duty separation? Is not the marriage in itself null and void? as if


